This is a nightmare for me, because I am so sarcastic and almost always joking, but 1) I will never, ever, as point of honour, say "I'm joking", and 2) every so often I will be extremely sincere. I really think understanding deadpan and its beauty (and generosity!) is such a gift.
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Written text is hard to convey tone/inflections that would signal a sarcastic response.
And yes I hold myself to the same standard.
Count me out of this accommodation request.
If a neurodivergent person clearly doesn't understand a satirical/sarcastic comment, asking not to be dragged for it isn't much of an "accommodation"; it is simple courtesy.
Sarcasm can be very difficult for me to understand in person, much less in a text conversation devoid of cues.