I feel like it's either that, get married to a partner with a full-time job, or get a full-time job and work on the weekends (me currently). It is ROUGH out here.
by all accounts i was technically "making it" and then the demands of the industry drove me to ________ in the span of 3 years, so. find a landlord with a bizarre biological fondness for you to take some of the pressure off, idk.
(obviously it depends on the nature/quality of your relationship, etc but) truly nothing cooler than quietly radicalizing a retiree over time. growing a three sisters garden with my mom last year changed us both in ways i'm still grappling with.
That is so beautiful. My husband and I are planning to take over my parents farm in a few years so they can live in a smaller house on the property. Also going to let my sisters build if they wish to come back. That is the environment I want to raise my child in!!
Right!!! If we lived this way, not everyone in the household needs a full time job. We could make art and grow things and be silly little creatures enjoying the world. Instead we go to mindless jobs that really don't need to exist. I plan to never force my child to move out at 18
nah seriously I wish I could live with them again, I miss those days. I didn't have to worry about anything except my loneliness and how I hadn't done anything with my life.
Now I'm still lonely, still haven't done anything but they're gone.
That is a very real problem. I would not want people living with abusive or bad parents! That's when we create our own village, somehow. or yes find a sweet couple to adopt you ❤️
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My dad's only tolerable in small doses and that's not gonna end well.
nah seriously I wish I could live with them again, I miss those days. I didn't have to worry about anything except my loneliness and how I hadn't done anything with my life.
Now I'm still lonely, still haven't done anything but they're gone.