I’ll share my best epiphany of the year - only a few will understand, but anyway here it goes: Whenever we are faced with a situation that calls for a decision, we have two options… - ThreadSky

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josemoralesc.bsky.social • 29 days ago

I’ll share my best epiphany of the year - only a few will understand, but anyway here it goes:
Whenever we are faced with a situation that calls for a decision, we have two options…

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josemoralesc.bsky.social•29 days ago

The first is to check what’s the outcome we want to avoid, and decide from a mindset of “fear”

josemoralesc.bsky.social•29 days ago

The second is to see what we want to achieve, and decide from a mindset of “trust”

josemoralesc.bsky.social•29 days ago

It sounds pretty superficial, but it is not. To me it is life changing.
Deciding from fear factors in the decision our insecurities, sense of lack, bad experiences, and includes also some anxiety, frustration and neediness.
Is that a good ground to decide?

josemoralesc.bsky.social•29 days ago

In contrast, deciding from trust, focuses on the ideal but realistic outcome, without losing too much energy in negative or anxious thinking. It also ads a sense of confidence. When we decide from trust, we realize our decision doesn’t warranty success, and we know we’ll have to adapt

josemoralesc.bsky.social•29 days ago

To decide with trust, we first need to acknowledge the insecurities, fears, and frustrations that arise from the situation that is calling for the decision.
Then we consciously remember that anxiety and frustration don’t help.

josemoralesc.bsky.social•29 days ago

Instead, without wanting to change the situation as it is, start to think on what’s the best possible next outcome and act upon it. For example:

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