Dating apps are not my jam, but I will say in the total of 4 weeks that I used them I made a few close friends & met my current partner. Having said that I hid my profiles from men, so maybe that's the difference. Men in dating apps are the worst. Still got matched by cis men claiming to be women
It doesn't matter what I try I just do not find women - I really live in the wrong place for it. Everyone's a couple which tbh I don't actually care about but they all want their partners involved which is just too much hassle.
Oh wow, it's that bad?? Which apps have you tried? I only used Hinge and Bumble. There's another app, Her, which is queer women and AFAB people only, but I never used it
But for real I can't imagine meeting people and dating right off, because I would want for my partner to be my friend first and foremost, and dating is just like We meet to potentially be in love and together but we don't even know each other much
Idk I don't feel like it works like that at all
Kinda funny with this because I met my girlfriend through an app, although it was not a *dating* app, but we both were just looking for new friends, and then it (naturally) snowballed from there
Also I know none of these men have read my profile at all because it's hugely biased towards men in their late 40's who own property in london proposing I be the mother of their kids.
Meanwhile my profiles is all "I like playing videogames and painting models of anime characters"
What? You don’t enjoy almost literally shopping for a partner while looking at photos of them from five years ago? Reading their too precious BS question answers? Waiting for them to inevitably ghost after two word, two exchange text conversations?
No one can send you unsolicited dick pics, they have to put in real effort to contact you (building a massive antenna), and there are almost no fuck boys.
I assume.
I'm not a HAM radio operator.
I can't be on a dating app without mostly getting men in my dms. I'm a lesbian. I mark lesbian, into women, looking for women, etc everywhere I can. I put it in my bio. They don't care.
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Or come visit Melbourne and find yourself a visa lover 😋
Idk I don't feel like it works like that at all
Meanwhile my profiles is all "I like playing videogames and painting models of anime characters"
No one can send you unsolicited dick pics, they have to put in real effort to contact you (building a massive antenna), and there are almost no fuck boys.
I assume.
I'm not a HAM radio operator.
I don't want to go on a dating app, but I have no idea where I'd meet anyone with all my likes and interests. 🤔