Am I wrong for feeling weird about going to a show with people who have already stated they plan to get as drunk as they can? I like to cut myself off at some point, I don’t want to black out ever again honestly
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Listen to this gut feeling. Don't go along if it's stressful and you think it will go poorly. It's their choice to get too fucked up, they can't keep expecting others to taking care of them. My rave experiences improved dramatically once I stopped hanging out with people like that.
It sounds like they're already telling you how they expect you to act, which is taking care of them. Nothing wrong with drawing a boundary and letting them do their own thing.
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