reminder that sometimes when you try and remedy mistakes, people will twist it and act like you're trying to harm them. in those situations, i'll either get gaslighted or gaslight myself in an attempt to humble myself to get them to feel better. the real solution? get out of there ASAP!!! - ThreadSky

dumbsville.bsky.social • 12 days ago

reminder that sometimes when you try and remedy mistakes, people will twist it and act like you're trying to harm them.

in those situations, i'll either get gaslighted or gaslight myself in an attempt to humble myself to get them to feel better.

the real solution? get out of there ASAP!!!

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glovemiester.bsky.social•7 days ago

So true

orionppax.bsky.social•12 days ago

I usually correct them on that but if they refuse to at least see how they hurt me then I usually drop it or i'm gone. Situations like those are hard because it's really hard to feel like it isn't your fault, I don't like putting blame on people I like seeing how I could've affected them negatively.

dumbsville.bsky.social•12 days ago

Honestly type shit. i'm not very good at defending myself anyways tbh, and i was raised to be a people pleaser so my defaults to conflict ends up not working that well. but some people will be too hard on you so don't doubt yourself, just realize you aren't compatible.

orionppax.bsky.social•12 days ago

Yeah, balance is key, the sucky part about it is when a person is an actual good person. It's just that you both are at a different point in life. That's the beauty of experiences though. Makes one appreciate what they have more 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

dumbsville.bsky.social•12 days ago

Exactly!! Nothing wrong with that either. If shit's meant to work out, it'll work out in time, but you gotta protect yourself sometimes and do shit on your own.

dumbsville.bsky.social•12 days ago

anger will legit cloud judgement and that's real. if someone is angry at you, or if you're angry at someone else, you more than likely are not ready to talk. sometimes, you/they never will, and yknow what? that's ok. move on, realize they're human too, and focus on the future. Trust <333

aoiasahinashusband.bsky.social•11 days ago

Fluttershy and Twilight are MINES ONLY i shall find you kid you think it's all fun and games hahaha you'll see

timprime1.bsky.social•11 days ago

No kidding. I need to do the same thing, but old habits die hard, lol.

squirrele.bsky.social•12 days ago

Sometimes people are too self centered and unwilling to step outside their own point of view, even when it's totally off-base. Always check what you know is real. Sometimes the only solution is to let them have their delusion, and walk away knowing you're living your truth.

dumbsville.bsky.social•12 days ago

100% real. Best not to doubt yourself cause people will misinterpret shit. It's sad, but it's good to know when to walk away and leave shit alone.

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