i know there’s been talk about the normalization of trad wives etc etc etc and i don’t even mean that. I have nothing against working i just don’t want to be the main breadwinner. Because that’s a lot of responsibility but also i could not financially raise a family off my income.
i’ve seen differences in my coworkers of husbands who don’t work or don’t make much vs husbands who are successful and make a lot and it’s just a stark contrast.
anyways all of this makes dating VERY hard in my area because mostly everyone either is blue collar, a pilot, military, or works in the refineries. OR bums who don’t work. It makes it sooooooooo hard to date.
i truly truly truly do not want to raise kids with someone who doesn’t value a good job/education or at least being comfortable. It’s soooooooo frustratinggggg.
It feels like truly my only options as far as dating is so move somewhere but if i move i would have to work night shift and i also would have to pay rent and im SO!!!!
you’re not a gold digger for being realistic about what you need in a partner. it’s too hard to get by as it is, and if you want to start a family with someone, that stability is so so so important. my dad is my rock, and you should find someone who can do the same for you and your potential kids❤️
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