I don’t like to post non-pornographic stuff since I just assume that no one cares and I like to keep my personal life to myself generally, but I tried to put myself out there and try dating again and got stood up tonight and ate dinner by myself at a restaurant. 😞 - ThreadSky

beaujordan.bsky.social • 29 days ago

I don’t like to post non-pornographic stuff since I just assume that no one cares and I like to keep my personal life to myself generally, but I tried to put myself out there and try dating again and got stood up tonight and ate dinner by myself at a restaurant. 😞

Comments

cantwait2b.bsky.social•27 days ago

This is so brutal I’m so sorry someone did that to you. I know it doesn’t help but you totally dodged a bullet and I hope you had a lovely meal. Someone will recognize what a catch you are and have many dinners with you 💜💚

spandexlover.bsky.social•29 days ago

I'm so sorry 😞 to hear that. I'd never stand you up. I'd love to have dinner with you and some fun

beary55.bsky.social•28 days ago

That sucks. Pox on him.

bucki-guy.bsky.social•25 days ago

The guys a tool, I hate that people are so casual about being jerks. So sorry you experienced that, but there’s good fellas out there 🙏 Chin, ass and cock up, handsome! 😘

beaujordan.bsky.social•28 days ago

By the way, why did 14 people like this post?!? Does my misery bring people joy 😔. I know it does when I wrestle 😈….but this post was about real life!

spandexlover.bsky.social•28 days ago

No, didn't hit it to like the post, it's sad and I'd never get joy out of your misery. Their wasn't a sad button to hit

beaujordan.bsky.social•28 days ago

I figured no one really “liked” what happened but it was just funny to see a bunch of people liking a sad post lol

lycanxxx.bsky.social•28 days ago

I only liked it to show solidarity. The level of ghosting that goes on in gay dating literally makes it feel like a graveyard, doesn’t it?! 🖤

beaujordan.bsky.social•28 days ago

He did message me today and was very nonchalant about it and there was zero ownership of what he did….. 🙄

lycanxxx.bsky.social•28 days ago

Ugh I hate that! I’m sorry. Flaky ghosts are the worst IMO.

seaalttle.bsky.social•28 days ago

Perhaps it was just a way to see “I see you” and empathize?

beaujordan.bsky.social•28 days ago

Who knows. I didn’t take it personally, I just thought it was funny to see lol

bullybarrett.bsky.social•28 days ago

“Liking” is the only response we have. For some it just means “I see you”. Don’t be hard on yourself. And I’m sorry for what happened to you. I hope we can grab dinner some day. And a wrestle xx

beaujordan.bsky.social•28 days ago

Still waiting to get an email notifying me if my Wimbledon lottery entry comes through 🤞. But I recently looked it up and saw you can get to the grounds early every morning and wait in a long queue for tickets, so if all else fails 🤷🏻‍♂️. Definitely want to make it over to England this summer!

bullybarrett.bsky.social•28 days ago

I would definitely make the trip to see you if you come to London buddy. There’s a good private wrestling facility there we can rent too 😏

beaujordan.bsky.social•28 days ago

Twist my arm why don’t you 😈🤣

jaxon11155.bsky.social•28 days ago

I volunteer to be a spectator

baizhussy.bsky.social•27 days ago

I would never walk out on you. I’m so sorry that happened.

felsic.bsky.social•29 days ago

What a piece of shit. If you can’t make a date or change your mind, you nut up and say so instead of ghosting like a coward.

I’m sorry he did that to you.

beaujordan.bsky.social•29 days ago

I communicate through WhatsApp usually and I sent him messages last night saying “hey I’m here”. And “well I finished dinner by myself” and it says he saw them hours later and didn’t respond. I guess I was holding out for a legit excuse but if he was sorry he would have immediately responded 😔

teslabolts.bsky.social•29 days ago

All the hugs mate 💜

beaujordan.bsky.social•29 days ago

Not going to lie, I still feel down 😔

teslabolts.bsky.social•29 days ago

Honesty is the best policy with emotions like these, even though they hurt. Bottling them up just leads to more intense versions with bad timing 💜 If you need someone to chat with, even just to vent and feel listened to, feel free to hit me up mate. No one these days should have to struggle alone