So… Which stage of grief are you at? 1. Shock/Disbelief 2. Denial 3. Guilt/Bargaining 4. Sadness/Regret 5. Anger 6. Acceptance 7. Hope I’m slowly moving from 4 to 5. - ThreadSky

becky1900.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m at 5 & will remain so!

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kycolonelclark.bsky.social•103 days ago

About the same. 😮😡

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antjill.bsky.social•104 days ago

Between 4 and 5!

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soniadeigh.bsky.social•104 days ago

Anger

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maskup.bsky.social•104 days ago

I'll be hanging out in #1 for awhile if anyone's looking for me.
No plan to reach #6.

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sydalexmom.bsky.social•103 days ago

I've been at *5* since #TedCrOOZE was re-affirmed by TexASS ... ugh ... again. Slowly moving to *acceptance* ... with a healthy residual of *anger* ... warming its cockles. Not wasting ANY time or #BrainEnergy on ANY other emotion.

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marya-maryland.bsky.social•104 days ago

9 . Retribution. We ride at dawn!

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shannonjennae.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m not doin them in order. I’m working to build on for my next challenge and hoping that will lessen the amount of time I have to devote to each step.

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petraroesner.bsky.social•104 days ago

Been at 5 for days

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trekrider4494.bsky.social•104 days ago

I started at 5, I’m still at 5 and will be at 5 until the orange stench is gone.

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kestrel61.bsky.social•103 days ago

I think I’ll be stuck at 5 for at least a year. It’s hard to believe 75 million Americans are so gullible and ignorant they’d vote for a felon, insurrectionist, abuser, criminal, and morally bankrupt jerk.

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renastone.bsky.social•104 days ago

I'm still on a continuous random cycle between 1 and 5.

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grandmabecky.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5.

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iammentalfloss.bsky.social•103 days ago

I don't see despair on the list, LOL 🤪

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starlightshelling.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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musicmom60.bsky.social•103 days ago

4/5

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t-bones.bsky.social•104 days ago

5

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melissapoole05.bsky.social•104 days ago

I've been camped out in 5 for a week and a half.

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danishgirlusa.bsky.social•104 days ago

It’ll serve us well. 5 is good place.

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jelamonsterart.com•104 days ago

In the middle of a 4-5 transition. I waffle back and forth though.

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nobirdnonet.bsky.social•103 days ago

Replace 6 with “cold fury” and I’m there.

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getawaycarmom.bsky.social•103 days ago

I feel like I went straight from 1 to 5. I've been going back and forth between 5 and 7 depending on the news of the moment.

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timmzahn.bsky.social•104 days ago

5 - Definitely 5

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pattilee52.bsky.social•104 days ago

Don't see myself budging from 5 any time soon.

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becky1900.bsky.social•103 days ago

Same here!

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danishgirlusa.bsky.social•104 days ago

We see each other 🔥

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mssmart.bsky.social•104 days ago

The “fu@k off” stage

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voodoolonge69.bsky.social•104 days ago

I’m in the first 5.

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mxxl.bsky.social•104 days ago

5
A fiery, soul consuming, try-me-if-you-want-to, 5!

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catvcastle.bsky.social•104 days ago

Same

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violetsemporium.bsky.social•104 days ago

I’m jumping back & forth with denial & anger. LOTS OF ANGER! Good to see you guys here!

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justlori.net•104 days ago

5.

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pamelaa2.bsky.social•104 days ago

6. It was easy this time, since we've been through it before.

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andrewmceo.bsky.social•104 days ago

Accept but resist...

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carriehighlander.bsky.social•103 days ago

I was between 4 and 5. Since moving to Bluesky I am 7. This platform is good for the soul.

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evokingimages.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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bloz.bsky.social•103 days ago

I would say 1

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yelladogs.bsky.social•104 days ago

1-5

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ceejaa.bsky.social•103 days ago

Simmering boil

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westcoastwoman.bsky.social•104 days ago

How do I count nauseated?

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radiofreedurango.bsky.social•104 days ago

Locked in on 5. I was seriously considering quietly emigrating but it feels right to fight back instead. Strategy as yet undefined, but I started with upping my monthly donation to HRC.

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2krebecca.bsky.social•103 days ago

5 and it seems to be stuck there

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heathenbce.bsky.social•104 days ago

13 🏴‍☠️ #Degüello 🏴‍☠️

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greggchadwick.bsky.social•103 days ago

7 of course - and if you follow the enneagram it makes complete sense

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deepvard.bsky.social•104 days ago

8. #FAFOville in #Putinistan #schadenfreude

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karamelioness.bsky.social•103 days ago

I think about this everyday day, still currently sitting in the 1’s and 2’s depending on my mood.

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kellysparkles.bsky.social•103 days ago

Anger and that’s where I’ll stay

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obrienmatthew.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m still spinning from 3-4 but am clawing my way toward 5.

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hopereins.bsky.social•103 days ago

Anger

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lisabeachie.bsky.social•104 days ago

Stuck on 4.

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happycatlady2.bsky.social•103 days ago

Going back and forth between 1&5. Don’t think I’ll ever get to 6!

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mav1414.bsky.social•104 days ago

Heavy 5

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donnalb.bsky.social•103 days ago

5. Not budging. But refuse to be miserable.

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jer1190.bsky.social•103 days ago

I was stuck at 4 for the first week post-election, but now I’m a strong 5. Not going to go down without a fight at least. They want us to roll over and die but I will not.

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kjpratt.bsky.social•103 days ago

Agree.

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nygirlvegas.bsky.social•104 days ago

I’ve been at 5 for more than a week! 🤬

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mollita.bsky.social•103 days ago

Still at 2. I'm a stubborn bitch.

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heatherla68.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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evenstarlara.bsky.social•103 days ago

Im bouncing between 1, 2, 3 and 4 like an emotional ping pong ball

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hobbesmommy.bsky.social•103 days ago

I would say 4-5

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angelalalala.bsky.social•103 days ago

I had all of those last week.. where is numb ?

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blackfox62.bsky.social•104 days ago

5

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surahz.bsky.social•103 days ago

4

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momto32.bsky.social•103 days ago

Still at 1/2. Especially when something new comes out.

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missplaced.bsky.social•103 days ago

4/5

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dianneathome.bsky.social•103 days ago

I'm in the same place.

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megcallen.bsky.social•103 days ago

I am not proud to say that I spent a little too long on the “conspiracy” section of grief. I am now angry but accepted it. Every conservative should get what they voted for.

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educatorts.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m a solid #5. The only way I’ll move to #6 acceptance is if we do recounts and a forensic audit. I might be stuck at 5 for a while. 🙄

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always-taxing.bsky.social•103 days ago

Totally stuck at 5. Don't anticipate budging for awhile tbh

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marylutherqueen.bsky.social•103 days ago

Still at 4

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ruthvader1.bsky.social•103 days ago

I hit anger today. Major anger.

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ruthvader1.bsky.social•104 days ago

All of them.

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azbluegirl.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m still a 1 with some 4 but believe we have to have lots of 7. We will continue to fight and we will prevail.

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torylynne.bsky.social•103 days ago

1-5 all at once 24/7

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doreengarfield.bsky.social•103 days ago

Wildly vacillating between 2 and 5.

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green4you.bsky.social•104 days ago

I have been at 4 for a while now…I’m not sure I can get past it.

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elirose476.bsky.social•104 days ago

Moving up and down the top 4

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bcresist.bsky.social•104 days ago

Solid 4.

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agreatsong.bsky.social•104 days ago

I’m at 3.

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tezzianne.bsky.social•103 days ago

That’s where I am, between 4 and 5. I am NOT ready for acceptance… still too pissed off at family and half of America.

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nellfromtwitter.bsky.social•103 days ago

I'm at 5

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darthmagahater.bsky.social•104 days ago

I'm past anger and filled with hate, but I'm channeling the dark side into a quest for revenge. We will destroy MAGA if it's the last thing I do.

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metallicmoon.bsky.social•103 days ago

Number 1

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ak54.bsky.social•104 days ago

Still on 1

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rkimberlily.bsky.social•103 days ago

Simultaneously feeling 1 - 5

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boutaj2024.bsky.social•101 days ago

I think I will be permanently stuck at 5.

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bywaters.bsky.social•103 days ago

Firmly at 5

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chigarooskywalker.bsky.social•103 days ago

Stuck at 5.

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pammiebear.bsky.social•103 days ago

I vacillate from #1 to #5.

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kaburgess1.bsky.social•103 days ago

Solid 4

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kaburgess1.bsky.social•103 days ago

With flashes of 5

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melaniedaniels.bsky.social•103 days ago

Still at shattered and trying to find all the pieces and the glue gun

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longbeachgirl.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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boxermom2.bsky.social•103 days ago

I'm sliding into 5 with all of these crazy cabinet picks. He's intentionally trying to destroy us! And he shouldn't even be eligible to be Potus! Yeah 5, definitely a solid 5...

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laurapcd1.bsky.social•104 days ago

7

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ninahase.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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lauralydel.bsky.social•104 days ago

Same. Hope seems a bit far off yet.

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jadedinmontana.bsky.social•103 days ago

Solid 5 and I don't see that changing anytime soon.

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weregobbie.bsky.social•103 days ago

None. I am remembering the 10 years prior to the civil war when anti-slavery groups attacked the pro-slavery groups. I remember the fights in congress. I am acknowledging that a failed coup happened and we let it skit on by. It's time to stop begging. It's time to stop talking. It's time to arm up.

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ditto-ditto.bsky.social•103 days ago

I don't think most Republicans realize that democrats have guns too.

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weregobbie.bsky.social•103 days ago

Around 35% I think. Last I looked a few years ago anyways! We just need to ALL arm up.

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jeanmesic.bsky.social•103 days ago

7 Hope, with an undertone of Despair

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engineeramy.bsky.social•104 days ago

Been at a 5 for a week now, just can’t shake the anger, so, so angry.

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georgewachsmuth.bsky.social•103 days ago

Cycle from 2 to 5 and back…..depends….occasionally none of those, if that makes any sense..

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teddithomp.bsky.social•104 days ago

I vacillate between 1 and 5.

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kaitwaisland.bsky.social•103 days ago

I still can't believe what just happened. 1

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tennking.bsky.social•104 days ago

a disgusted 6…
but NOT giving up…
far from it…..

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amyishappy.bsky.social•104 days ago

No matter where I am today, it will start all over again in January 🤦🏻‍♀️

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hedalexa5x5.bsky.social•104 days ago

5 and holding

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balthir.bsky.social•104 days ago

5 and will be there for a VERY long time.

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amyruokruokamy.bsky.social•104 days ago

If acceptance is the stage where you're ready to roll up your sleeves for the midterms and resist, I'm in acceptance.

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beazee.bsky.social•103 days ago

I'm 1 and 5 simultaneously 24/7

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thatsvicki.bsky.social•103 days ago

Same

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resistant1.bsky.social•104 days ago

I cycled through the first stages, and now I'm in full-blown rage and fury. I'm ready for the "good trouble."

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ball-dont-lie.bsky.social•103 days ago

1 and I will be at 1 for 4 years.

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sandy-o.bsky.social•104 days ago

First few days in 1, then straight to 5. Bounce between 5 & 6 with the occasional fleeting glimpse of 7.

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yourmomandtom.bsky.social•103 days ago

Solid 2

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allbluegma.bsky.social•104 days ago

A solid 5 still

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vodkaquaffer.bsky.social•104 days ago

I never got out of 1 but somehow am in 5.

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ladyqueen.bsky.social•104 days ago

At 7 but my hope is detrimental to all Americans.

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heatherjae911.bsky.social•103 days ago

Hope 💙💙

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rumblydad.bsky.social•103 days ago

Between 5-6, don’t see myself getting to 7 for at least two more years.

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aotearoacraig.bsky.social•103 days ago

6

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silenceredux.bsky.social•104 days ago

Anger...and I plan to stay there.

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windwardgal.bsky.social•103 days ago

1

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beavbee.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m at 6 and 7

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tamigoldmann.bsky.social•104 days ago

I don't think I'll ever get to 5.

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firebirbo.bsky.social•103 days ago

Been at 7 for a while now.

I wanna try to stay optimistic. For all of my folks and friends, really.

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whynot98765.bsky.social•104 days ago

Acceptance!

I Accept That They Are Assholes!

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bepiper.bsky.social•104 days ago

Well said.

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whynot98765.bsky.social•104 days ago

Ty

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nerdygretel.bsky.social•102 days ago

Yep, acceptance is the one I’ll never reach.

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madz123.bsky.social•104 days ago

Yeah!!! What WhyNot said.

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whynot98765.bsky.social•104 days ago

Ty

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catladykathy.bsky.social•104 days ago

Rolling into acceptance. But we need a stage called action.

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wolfofodin.bsky.social•103 days ago

I started at anger and believe I will stay there.

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pugmom333.bsky.social•103 days ago

Seem to be stuck at 5

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alacritysshadow.bsky.social•103 days ago

10. tequila

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panthroonca.bsky.social•104 days ago

1, 2, 4, and 5. Doubtful I will ever move beyond that.

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meaningfulsalt.bsky.social•104 days ago

I'm old. I'm initiated. I'm mobilizing and coaxing my wheel-chair bound, Buddhist buddies into Warrior Dharma action. If we can't find em, we'll write em. Joy required. Just ask Sukhasiddhi.
I don't know what the future holds, but I suspect there is one. Mother Earth, too, plans.

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barbala.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m spinning like a top between the stages

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defeline.bsky.social•103 days ago

I am still vacillating between 3 & 4. We still have time for something big to happen. I can’t believe our current government is going to let this all blow up!

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smagz.bsky.social•103 days ago

I hope to never get to stage 6

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sfclevenger.bsky.social•103 days ago

I'm rotating through all...like pinball

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shazamzimzow.bsky.social•103 days ago

♾️ Activism

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antonioterry314.bsky.social•103 days ago

Number 6. Acceptance but I've been through All the other stages except hope.

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dollydingdong.bsky.social•103 days ago

Damn, I’m still at #1.

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patfromthestix.bsky.social•104 days ago

5. And I think I’ll be here
for a while.

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blueunikorn.bsky.social•104 days ago

Avoidance.

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donnalee711.bsky.social•104 days ago

Still firmly planted at #4. This is so much worse than 2016 because we know what his presidency will look like, only so very much worse. I’m highly doubtful that our country will ever fully recover from this. And highly doubtful we’ll ever have another election.

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robertdobbs.bsky.social•103 days ago

6->7

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lswavesz.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’ve been living all of these for 9 years so it feels like a strange and familiar feeling. Grief is wild and truly this is what it feels like

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jt-retiredmedic.bsky.social•103 days ago

Guess... 😉

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bluecat243.bsky.social•104 days ago

Stuck at 4

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mscharrise.bsky.social•103 days ago

4

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lifeinthepnw.bsky.social•104 days ago

8. Resistance

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wendy4208.bsky.social•104 days ago

A big old 5

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tpblue4.bsky.social•103 days ago

5 + revenge. 😆

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mizpeachykeen.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m 4.5

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bleucheeze13.bsky.social•103 days ago

Solid 5 🤬

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staceymuro.bsky.social•104 days ago

Same

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hms54.bsky.social•103 days ago

Same.. ARG

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hawaiianrn.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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ljc812.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m still at 1

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kat4hope.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m incensed, way past angry, but every day I do my best to not show this to my family, especially our young daughters.

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jayjay2785.bsky.social•104 days ago

I go from 1 to 7 in a days time. Then I repeat.

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francie75.bsky.social•103 days ago

I started at 5 , no slipping into 4 and numb.

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elizkay.bsky.social•104 days ago

I found a new phase. Scary quiet.

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moral-compass.bsky.social•104 days ago

Ooh yeah. I'm there too.

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moonbeamsassafrass.bsky.social•103 days ago

1

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woozleweasels.bsky.social•103 days ago

5, I started at horror and went immediately to anger and there I will stay till we get this fixed.

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kemccarthy.bsky.social•104 days ago

Between 6 and 7.

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witchyw0man.bsky.social•103 days ago

Been stuck at 5 for the last few days.

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kimberbee64.bsky.social•103 days ago

Rotating between 1-5, but mostly anger and disgust

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4evarebl.bsky.social•104 days ago

Oof I think I’m a lil stuck in the bargaining 😬

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rarejulze.bsky.social•103 days ago

Never was shocked or felt disbelief, or was in denial. No guilt or bargaining. Sadness, Hell yes! Regret? I voted for Kamala. Acceptance never. Hope? Absolutely! Voting is not a spectator sport nor democracy. Let's fight for our democracy! 🇺🇲✌️💙

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mjqr.bsky.social•104 days ago

I’m at 5 now. More like rage 😤

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pupsydodah.bsky.social•104 days ago

I'm scared and I don't think that'll change anytime soon

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w1tchhunter.bsky.social•102 days ago

I bounce around from 1,2, and 5. Mostly 5.

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joelinthecloud.social•103 days ago

Basically been at 5 since last week Tuesday night

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cyclingchick.bsky.social•104 days ago

4

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andymac.amlm.us•102 days ago

4-5. I expect to be here a while.

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johnneff26.bsky.social•103 days ago

4

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catsinmtns.bsky.social•103 days ago

Sitting in Anger with still a touch of disbelief. Moving into preparation for incoming insanity

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theshutteredroom.bsky.social•104 days ago

I think I'm at Stage 4 still.

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roguetime.bsky.social•104 days ago

I’m at 5.

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carrieanne.bsky.social•104 days ago

5

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layla777.bsky.social•103 days ago

2. Forever at 2

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sherritxoxo.bsky.social•103 days ago

I’m toggling between 4-6

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nickcorelli1.bsky.social•104 days ago

Sadness and regret + anger

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lisadg.bsky.social•104 days ago

5 and I think I'm going to live here for some time.

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mskimberlya.bsky.social•103 days ago

Yep. That’s pretty much where I’m at too, between 4 and 5. 🥺

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forevermissnic.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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lapackerita.bsky.social•104 days ago

I never had denial, but I had 1, 4 and 5 all at once for about a week and a half. Now I’m a strong 4 bleeding into 6.

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clb68.bsky.social•103 days ago

5

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jackiewalsh.bsky.social•104 days ago

I do a run through of all 7 everyday.

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mmudrow1.bsky.social•104 days ago

5, definitely 5

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vmt60s.bsky.social•103 days ago

Bouncing 1, 2, 5, 1, 2, 5.....

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mzhazy117.bsky.social•103 days ago

I got there quickly. I feel rage all day long, & I’m ok with that. For now.

Nice to see you here, too. Just started up yesterday after dumping xitter. My son asked me to. Says it’s nice here. So is Threads. We’re mutuals over there. We were on xitter, too. You’re one of my go-tos. Thanks.💙

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perejes.bsky.social•104 days ago

It all depends on my mood. I can go through all the stages of grief inside of an hour. I don't know if I'll ever get over Trump's victory. I hope I don't. Complacency is the end of our future together.

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