For me, it's getting physically adjusted to wearing it and also sometimes I can feel a bit sexually "stranded" when I'm in for longer periods. It's really important for me that my partner finds other ways to harness my sexual energy.
Wait--to me the hardest part would be the total control I'm giving my woman----how long before I'm on my knees begging for just a release? not sure I'd ever be ok with it
Physically it's either the pinching between the cage and ring or the hinge on the ring, but once you figure out a way around it though it's not too bad.
Mentally it's definitely how quickly it drives my brain haywire, the actual act of being caged makes me hornier than if I just wasn't using my dick
The hardest part for me is that the cage makes me think about sex 24/7. Since I'm locked, that means anal. I have a hard time thinking about anything else. I know that's not supposed to be the result of chastity, but that's where my mind goes.
The hardest, at least for me personally, once I get past the initial intense feelings of putting on the cage, is not making everything about my chastity. Remembering the whole purpose of being locked is not to focus on me/my cage but shift focus totally to her, and her desires/needs.
It's actually the everyday activities. My car seat tilts up enough that it's constantly trying to push my balls out of the gap. Lol. Some workouts at the gym are really difficult with a cage in the way. I had to learn how to sleep with it (a pillow between your knees is your new best friend).
I think this is the whole purpose of chastity it shouldn't be too comfortable some challenge should be there that's what shows commitment there should be difference between a normal life and when you are locked
Physically wearing a cage.
Lots of pinching, and pressure from my thicc thighs against 'the twins' when I'm sitting. And the weight of it while standing.
Hmmm. Apart from any of the obvious physical challenges 😅... It's probably different for each person but Id say building up the courage to wear it the first time. There really is something final about that last *click* as it locks in place and you're left wondering if this is really who you are.
My cock in the cage 😁 The hardest part of chastity in my opinion is day 3-7. Mentally you are not in the zone yet, and you still have a urge to cum. But after day 6-7, you dont wanna cum, because you are in the "zone", and don't wanna "swap" a 2 min happyfeeling when cumming with being in the zone🙏
Finding the balance between me being super horny and wanting to do things (anything) for my wife to show how horny I am for her, and her need for me to leave her the hell alone. Finding a balance where she isn't overwhelmed and I don't feel abandoned is really challenging.
As a recent cuck who's certainly not totally immersed in the traits of the lifestyle, I have my reservations against chastity and keyholding. While I surely understand the appeal for both parties and even the benefits, I think it can go wrong in the wrong hands, so to speak.
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- urinating,
- not mentioning it.
Mentally it's definitely how quickly it drives my brain haywire, the actual act of being caged makes me hornier than if I just wasn't using my dick
The heightened state of constant horniness becomes your pleasure.
What used to be a glowing let down post orgasm becomes a mental crash and burn.
Lots of pinching, and pressure from my thicc thighs against 'the twins' when I'm sitting. And the weight of it while standing.
Once all of that's sorted, the hard part is the internal mental struggle of wanting to be free and wanting the denial to continue.
Yes, it can do wonders for the relationship with the keyholder. And, it is also a powerful tool for self-improvement.
Physically there is sometimes a bit of chafing between the underside of the ring and scrotum that takes some getting used to
Maybe it was the fulfillment or just the commitment I made for someone else.