I think fully actualized trans people are so especially beautiful because you know that every detail is intentional, meticulously crafted, and came at a cost that could never be reduced to some number of dollars
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There are such slim pickings of healthy masculinity to draw from that you can bet that my gender is perfectly tailored to myself. This ain’t an off-the-rack gender, this is a gender years in the making, aged in the depths of self-analysis and anxiety.
So many of us question why someone might be attracted to us besides the novelty of what might be in our pants (how could you not, in this society?) but if beauty is the order we give to the randomness of nature, why would it be surprising that so many people are drawn to us?
Anytime someone is unapologetically happy with themselves and can’t help but radiate genuine joy and elation over just getting to choose who they want to be, that’s going to be extremely attractive.
Y’all are hot AF, obvi, but there is nothing more attractive than someone being their authentic selves. And y’all literally risk your lives to do it. Unapologetically. There is nothing more beautiful or powerful. Which is why they’re so intimidated by you.
It seems to me that trans women emit two compelling energies (intangible but feel-able qualities): human energy and female energy. Anyone attracted to those energies will be drawn in. And trans men emit human and male energy which also draw others in. It’s more energy than pants I reckon.
Your post was about so much more than this, but there's something so uplifting about trying on tomorrow's outfit, seeing yourself in the mirror, and thinking, "I look and feel gorgeous." It's like you said: we get to create ourselves, the way we imagine ourselves, and it's amazing when it happens.
i appreciate that and i kinda understood that but its annoying the only people i attract are people who are disgusted by me. im constantly dressing down so i dont attract attention
It’s really awful that so many people are fed such negative messages about us that even as they are drawn to us they must overcome their own heavily programmed disgust. I’m sorry you keep running into that, I know that’s so demoralizing.
Don't apologize because theyre their own tormentors by participating in homophobia. I just wish they'd follow their religion and gouge their eyes out like it says
I wish I could have meticulously crafted every detail. A wide range of extenuating circumstances prevented me from finishing the path I truly wanted to take.
I think that beauty often includes some state of never being finished - the fact that we never stop creating ourselves is what makes us so alive compared with others our age, who are so often just existing.
I think I appreciate myself more, too. Because I am happy in my body, I treat it better. Because this whole process took courage, I have gained self-confidence.
I want to be my best me in all ways, and I think (& hope) that radiates out to the world.
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*proceeds to not post anything scientific or proof of anything*
Can “beauty” include a quiet longing angst?
I rarely wear makeup, and I can see how other people think I don’t try very hard.
But everything about my presentation is intentional, down to when and when not I am clean shaven.
I know I look trans. I like looking how I do.
I want to be my best me in all ways, and I think (& hope) that radiates out to the world.
We are beautiful.
Thanks for the post
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Truly extraordinary.
https://youtu.be/jZkzmfUjpwA?si=6yKXN5TFVcczo46E