Dude: Dating is so easy for women. Just pick one of hundreds of Nice Guys™ on the app. And what's on the app: my life is falling apart - ThreadSky

askaubry.com • 20 days ago

Dude: Dating is so easy for women. Just pick one of hundreds of Nice Guys™ on the app.

And what's on the app: my life is falling apart

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whatsdonsmoking.com•20 days ago

My daughter. (31) is getting engaged to a great guy she met online two years ago. She recently remarked that she felt so lucky to not be dating online any longer. She said, "I feel like I got the last chopper out of 'Nam"

salamurai.bsky.social•20 days ago

seems a little early to be playing the sympathy card

goddessburstall.bsky.social•20 days ago

But he so niiiiiiiiice

kmueller.bsky.social•20 days ago

milesvorkosigan.bsky.social•20 days ago

Does that EVER work as an opening line?

deesevere.bsky.social•20 days ago

In addition to all his other failings, bozo can't tell difference between your and you're.

nicoladauthor.bsky.social•20 days ago

The way Josh has zero game, lol. I bet he rages how no one wants a NiceGuy, when they just don't want a creep in need of therapy.

kathwertheim.bsky.social•20 days ago

When my dad would try to fix the plumbing, my mom would stand over him and say, “Is there a professional who does this? Hire a professional who does this.” Clearly this guy needs to hire a professional therapist. (My parents solved the plumbing argument when my twin sister married a plumber!)

herfirst.bsky.social•20 days ago

We expect Women to do a thousand and one things.

Personal emotional support beam is one of my favorites
🙄

capillariancrest.bsky.social•20 days ago

Yet they’ll vigorously deny that emotional labor is a thing. While looking for a bangmaid that also functions as their mother. Embarrassing.

herfirst.bsky.social•20 days ago

Once I realized how much men do it I really started seeing it in my own behavior too. I've made huge strides to fix this

She's my confidant, not my therapist; and just because we're married doesn't give me the right to dump this crap on Her.

But you know, we're so strong and stoic blah blah blah

apaganinarizona.bsky.social•20 days ago

Women don't exist to fix broken men, hun.

knittingbee.bsky.social•20 days ago

"Now that I've put in my smarm coins and trauma dump, when do the sex and unpaid therapy fall out?"

lizalbin.bsky.social•20 days ago

I’d be done at “beautiful”.

What an annoying man.

milesvorkosigan.bsky.social•20 days ago

"Beautiful" tends to transition to body-shaming and death/rape threats real fast in these DMs.

maytagsmom.bsky.social•20 days ago

So attractive. 🤦🏽‍♀️

barbelle4.bsky.social•20 days ago

Hawt!!

mandelmusslor.bsky.social•19 days ago

Bro is being unfairly maligned.
What's the Strat? Simply lie and say that everything's hunky-dory?

"I'm fine" is the pro-forma answer! It says nothing, it means nothing, it renders a interaction instantly uninteresting.

carina-amyth.bsky.social•20 days ago

Go to therapy, sheesh...

mollymargaret.bsky.social•20 days ago

I'd have been done after the first "hun".

caroroesler.bsky.social•20 days ago

For real. I hate that spelling and also, you don't know me. It grates.

danishgirl177.bsky.social•18 days ago

Oo, for real. Also hate it when they start with the "Good morning, sweetheart! 😘" crap every morning (and the good night version as well) right out of the gate. Like DUDE. Slow your roll! You don't even know my last name!! And it ain't "sweetheart," I can assure you!

rollforsanity.bsky.social•20 days ago

He does get a pat on the head for revealing early on that he's going to consider her his emotional support feeeemale

kahn-noonien-singh.bsky.social•20 days ago

I can't imagine wanting to chat after that opening. Maybe he needs a therapist, not a date

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