relevant thoughts from this: one thing that keeps jumping out to me every time I run into this situation is "how can I prioritize the safety of both past and potential victims?" Certainly "make sure potential victims KNOW" is up there, but I also feel like... *Not* giving them a further reason to be
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Elliott Dunstan
if there's a running theme of people having active misgivings or past issues w/ a friend or lover of yours -- I'm not gonna say "listen to them", we do not live in a world where that's a fair and even statement
But I feel like I can reasonably say: don't completely wall yourself off from everyone-
But I feel like I can reasonably say: don't completely wall yourself off from everyone-
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And I'm doing self-crit here too , I just don't know how best to handle it
But like. Punishment is less important than harm reduction and safety nets