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Baseball nerd, Orioles fan, leftist, Baltimore YIMBY, romance reader, sewist, knitter, embroiderer, neurospicy, cat lady, triple negative breast cancer survivor, POTS, she/they
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Someone also said that thinking age gaps between consenting legal adults are problematic because one of them is under 25 is the same thing as Republicans thinking that homosexual relationships and being trans are bad and no. Just no.
Yeah, I had to step away.
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(We were not mature!!! We were in our early 20s!!!)
When I was in my mid/late 30s I couldn’t even imagine WANTING to date someone in their early 20s.
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One thing that unites me and all the women I know who dated men 10+ years older than us when we were in our late teens/early 20s is we thought we were so mature at the time, and that it made us so cool, but in retrospect we’ve realized how gross and unbalanced those relationships were.
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Oh my god my hair is unhinged in this vid 😂
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Thank you!
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On rare occasion he’d get brave enough to come down to the sofa and that was always such a huge treat that I would have to take a video.
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Yes. He also had his “safe zones” where people were okay, which was really just the bed.
Most affectionate cat on the planet if you were on the bed and let him come to you. Not on the bed? Terrified of everything. (Well humans, noises, etc. He was actually really good with other cats!!)
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Final product IS making me wish I was 5’10” because I love the way the skirt hung in the first picture.
The pattern envelop itself actually has it as ankle length, which is hard for me to picture? I could fold the hem up again to see what it looks like.
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Barnacle, on the other hand, was 1.5-2 weeks old when I ended up with him and he literally just thinks I’m his mom.
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My cat Poof Tail was a feral….as in friends of mine said “come get this kitten we found so that he’s not eaten by coyotes”. (LA)
He was maybe 4-5 weeks old at the time. He was the most affectionate cat I’ve ever had, but over 13 years he at most got over his inborn feralness maybe 30%.
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😢
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I do not believe there is a mayonnaise that will change my mind about liking it.
Turn it into Tiger sauce, then sure, but then it’s just a horseradish delivery system.
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Thank you!
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You can see the little white tip to Millie’s tail in the second picture 😂
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Thank you!
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Thank you!!
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I figured it would work for Pride regardless because bigger = better but I actually think it just looks really nice and wearable!
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Thank you!
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Thank you!!! I wasn’t sure how the fabrics would work together but they look so good!!
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It’s such a great flag!!
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(If it wasn’t clear, I was not defending him!! I was honestly just trying to figure out what you were circling to understand your point.)
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lol, yeah, this has always been pretty unambiguous.
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Nice
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Thank you! I totally couldn’t see the Mexican flags until you pointed that out. It just looked like you were circling NFWA flags. I can see them now. Appreciate the explanation!
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I’m not sure what you’re circling here other than the NFWA flag?
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Oh, gotcha!! Thank you!
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Yes that was my point.
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I can’t do HRT because of my history of breast cancer.
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I actually have one already. A fancy neck Air Conditioner.
I didn’t even think to grab it because I was so miserable. Thank you for the reminder.
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Haha yes they are.
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My husband has lived here for 8 years now and it still boggles his mind how close together states are here.
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I was supposed to make dinner tonight but now I’m dreading it
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I am not sure. They replaced the head athletic trainer.
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Absolutely agree
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I’ve been a fan of his for years for that reason
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I hope so!!