anomalocanid.bsky.social
🔞 18+ ONLY, all of my content (even sfw) is intended for an adult audience
💚 30, they/them.
i talk about: caves of qud, linux/open source, and working a shitty weekend graveyard shift. i also draw.
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if a customer makes eye contact and speaks to me like a human and not a servant robot i'll go out of my way to do stuff for them to make them happy. i ask so little
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im not blameless in this either i also get inflammatory and play the same one upsmanship games. its addictive to be "right", more so than actually producing a good result
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my favorite part is i will be backseat gaming and say hes gonna die and shes like "its fiiiine" and then dies
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it's okay baby i'll carry us
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australia has lived in america's pocket ever since. expecting anything other than waffle from our government is a fool's errand. but maybe enough outcry will force them to at least admit we're america's dog.
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we have an inextricable military agreement with the united states. we are essentially a vassal state. so it does matter here, what goes on over there.
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he took two steps forward, identified himself first, and did not even finish saying "i have questions" before he was manhandled violently out of the room. they seized him the moment he identified himself. and yet the media is already attempting to gaslight people.
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i hope theyre staying safe
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i love you i wish i could do more to protect you
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the best revenge you could take is to be happy. to show that their words and cruelty have no power over you. all she wants is to hurt you, to get a reaction to see that she managed to cause you pain. so don't give her that. don't even read what she says. do things that make you happy, and thrive
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if she doxxes or deadnames you again, there are people who will be here for you. you won't have to face that alone. so for now just try to pull away and block her out as best you can and return to some normalcy. take away her power to hurt you.
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if it happens, then you'll cross that bridge when you come to it. but you can't live in fear, checking and wondering if and when she'll go too far again. if she's going to do that, stressing about it isn't going to stop her. it's just added torture on top of it.
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the only thing left that you can take control of is the space you allow this to take up in your life.
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my own stalker still talks about me, two years later, every day. i don't check anymore, though. i don't want to see what's being said, because then i give her the power to influence my day, my mental health.
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my honest advice right now is to not check what's being said anymore. there's nothing anyone can do to stop her really- people have tried reasoning with her a thousand ways. so she's going to keep doing this indefinitely. so all that can be controlled now is how much impact it has on your life
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i think it's time to just stop engaging. atp anyone who still takes her at her word after all the shit she's spewed about mexicans, mixed race people, and intersex people, is either so gullible as to be beyond help, or equally as racist. there's nothing to be gained here anymore
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she throws out all these accusations as if it changes the simple fact that racism is still racism regardless of how much you hate the target. even if sawyer was a serial killer it wouldn't make it less racist to use triple parenthesis or say latino people are colonizing america
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she's clearly operating on some higher dimension us mere mortals can not comprehend. she's got the racism 4d cube
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it's like she thinks she's in any way unique or memorable when running into racists of her calibre is just Life for me.
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it definitely is annoying, but i have had much worse. i do think it's funny how they assume i spend all my time dwelling on this when there have been weeks at a time where i straight up forgot wis even existed until i get a DM saying she's posting about me again.
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if i start getting heated i can just... log off. it's precisely why i keep a boundary between hobbyist social medias and my personal life.
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she won't, but i don't care. i'm not an online person and my furry accounts are separated from my main personal life anyways. so nothing she says about me really bothers me that much, other than the autistic frustration i experience when people blatantly lie.
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so i dont think a thread will actually achieve anything other than putting you on the shitlist too. and you seem like a nice kid who doesn't deserve that harassment. so i'd say just let your own personal circle know your feelings and try to avoid them
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plenty of people have made threads atp but 1. she seems to enjoy the attention and 2. most furries are white and simply do not care about racism unless someone is being blatant enough that they can't brush it off without being questioned about it
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obviously. and they also automatically let you go if your surname isn't garcia. that makes sense, wis.
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yeah and she's apparently also saying it's all my fault she was having relationship problems with salem which lmao. ive had maybe 4 interactions with the pair of them combined. if that's enough to destabilize a loving relationship that's very sad
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i can no longer deal with this shit it honestly is giving me brain damage to even try to understand where the rationalisation of this is. i give up.
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that surprises me the least
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did i ever tell you at the dorian electra concert i went to someone was waving capitalist realism in the crowd and they stopped the show to be like “that book changed my life, everyone go read it right now”