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badhouses.bsky.social
Musician with much talent and little worth. It's all about the art, you understand He/Him cis trans ally. Left wing. https://linktr.ee/simonhandsom
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That's f***ing awful. 🙁
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Hey
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You're awesome. X
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Fair enough, you're completely right
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It is predatory, but if you're direct about what they are doing it'll get through to them, you just shouldn't have to. Male behaviour isn't at its best nowadays, self entitlement is engrained somehow. But change does occur.
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Self entitlement, refusal to process rejection, trying to find a weaker person. It's weirdly subconscious, most guys are horrified when it's pointed out to them with absolute clarity. You shouldn't have to though, that's the real problem.
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It's desperation and a lack of self awareness. What starts off as basic attraction becomes an obstinate demand upon the rejection given by either silence or a lack of verbal acceptance. I'm afraid I was one of those types many moons ago. It's addictive behaviour.
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The left one is my fave
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Yeah that's what I read too
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Absolutely. Same with tea and coffee.
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You'd expect it from the Tories, her surname is literally Bad Enoch. But from Labour? I'm astounded they've capitulated that far to the right. I don't think another party is coming along to help us. This is a time for more of us to come together at a grassroots level and counter this fascism.
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They've refused to condemn Israel despite being on warchild albums in the 90s In short they're hypocritical
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Ouchie
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Hope it fits me, my legs aren't what they used to be
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God I find it so difficult, I've flipped my lid so much this last month
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A lot of it is dependant on avoiding accountability
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Stop being so beautiful, I've got things to do! 💓
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Always
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It's like popularity theft too. Bluesky is a new platform so I suppose they're trying to get to grips with it. Not very well though.
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Thank you. I just noticed and have done so.
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You're awesome. I really like your supportive posts. It's like you truly understand other people's lived experience. I really appreciate it.
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Please take care yourself though, in parallel x
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It's really sunny here
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Very elegant
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I often remember that things are a case of "hope but don't expect"
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Can I suggest googling Grace Blakeley, she is currently compiling a newsletter that shows examples of grassroots campaigns in the UK but it is relevant internationally. She has written an amazing book called "vulture capitalism" We can have hope but it's down to us I suspect.
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They're banning English stag do's over Europe, beat that!
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Likewise.
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Good luck. I hope it's reparative. X
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Swipe right on me if you like!
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And fair enough
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I just ate my phone
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😘💕
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I ditched X because of its vibe I ditched Facebook due to dire support I'm finding a new home here and in threads.
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Yep
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Yeah it was hard letting quite a few go but for the sake of my mental health and internal narrative I am breathing in the air here and starting again
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I left X a few weeks ago. Don't want it now it's so entrenched.
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Heya x
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Definitely
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I know what you mean
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Dark, dairy or white?
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Likewise x
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Likewise! 🎄😁