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cat mom. plant dad. aunt x2. grizzled programmer, human on assorted journeys. neurodivergent + ambiguously queer. nature is swell! she/her/addie enbeing 🌈🤖
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My brain just overlaid the way technical interviews sometimes feel for me with that video from a few weeks ago where Maxine Dexter decides to start swearing

I had a "virtual onsite" of interviews today and I hope it went well enough that I can stop doing virtual onsites and start doing actual work again 🤞

My cat Beth is currently flopped on her back on the couch, watching the room from upside down just because she can. Cats are so good

White Lotus season 3 has so many good caftans. Peak loungewear

Ive said it before but Ill say it again Gardening is a lot of fun and growing things is nice but also you learn a valuable lesson which is: I would absolutely starve to death if I needed to grow all of my own food

I'm not certain I genuinely experience the Luigi thirst (aroace era), but I am incredibly fond of the collective Luigi thirst. Congrats all for another day of good content

Really hoping at some point that people realize that a man who gets called “very smart” isn’t necessarily moral, and maybe isn’t even smart.

Over the last few weeks I have been growing many oyster mushrooms as a coping mechanism and today I cooked them all and ate them (well, a lot saved for leftovers). Appeased my inner gardener during these winter months

I've been reading Cate Huston's "The Engineering Leader" over the last week and I'm really enjoying it - complements current coaching efforts really nicely, and it's packed with advice specifically for under-indexed folks. Plus appearances by a few people I actually know!

Two job opportunity interview pipelines kicked off this week, 🤞 one or both will be fits!

Had a good call about a job opportunity today, but have been spending the evening trying to integrate that with the general bummer vibes of the last month + general fatigue with job searching

💯

We haven't been able to plan big travel while I'm between jobs, which is a vital winter coping mechanism - but that's feeling like a bit of a silver lining at present with all the distressing air safety news. Grateful the PNW is abundant with closer-by opportunities

There's just the slightest touch of spring in the air today and oh thank goodness the end (of the seasonal depression) is near

I sleep with a knife under my pillow in case someone with assorted meats and cheeses breaks in and needs to make a charcuterie board

andrew solomon's the noonday demon still slaps nearly a quarter century later

I was able to walk for 45 minutes today after being mostly housebound with the snow + ice + slush and wow I feel so much better. I was feeling an uncomfortable level of background anxiety and now I feel settled ☺️

Tom Sandoval has elevated #TheTraitorsUS, bless

I had exactly zero plans to see the new Captain America film in theaters, let alone on opening day, but then a friend said "snow day movie?" and snow day movie changes everything. It wasn't as bad as I was prepared for 🤷‍♀️

We are making cannabis tincture this afternoon, so the entire house has quite the odor

it's true

Hell yeah PNW

The Guster "we also have eras" show was such irreverent fun! There was a puppet! Costume changes! High school theater grade acting in a former high school theater! Sometimes getting old is fun

despite everything, the world is beautiful

Seasonal depression is an unkind friend but I'm out with a longtime friend and my sister tonight for a concert and it's great to spend time with them

loved this read

Being a big tech employee in 2025.

Today was weirdly hard for being entirely packed with self care activities!

This was a project that was in progress pre-peak seasonal depression, so finally seeing it through feels sincerely great

It's too dark and I'm too sleepy to tidy everything up and put the panels back on tonight, but I got the new fans to work with the new controller so I'm happy

Took a break from the job search because seasonal depression was really kicking my butt... trying to start things up again and get back into playing with some tech stuff to get my head back in the right place, but part of me is still dragging her damn heels

I ordered some emotional support mushroom blocks when I was peak seasonal depression a few weeks back and they are really delivering on premise

Oh FFS

when people say they have baby fever is it the same as the maternal feelings I have for the giant rubber duck

Registered as domestic partners with Echo yesterday, for the usual reasons (health insurance). The certificate they give you is for decorative purposes only 😆

Around Portland, moss edition

We are taking a long weekend at a favorite hotel in Astoria, OR and some friends who were here a couple weekends ago left us a card. So sweet!