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submitted 54 days ago • 0 comments

Mom just called one our dogs by the name of our dog when I was in college. So sweet and cute. 🙂 I miss that dog.

submitted 55 days ago • 0 comments

All three pair of my iPods are lost. WTF is wrong with me????!!! Why can’t I stop losing everything???? 57 fucking years old and I still can’t get my shit together. Death cannot come soon enough. Fuck life.

submitted 55 days ago • 0 comments

Mom just had the cutest confabulation. She told me all about being in the marching band in college. She was in her high school band. And it’s just occurred to me that her high school allowed girls in the marching band but the university she attended didn’t until 20 years after she graduated.

submitted 56 days ago • 0 comments

Mom asked, is this a warm temperature? Bloody fucking hell. Shoot me now I’m begging you. But you’ll have to shoot my dogs too because there’s no one to take care of them when I’m dead. PLEASE

submitted 56 days ago • 0 comments

Mom speak: that food was good but I can’t finish it Interpretation: stop eating, get up, remove my plate 🤦‍♀️

submitted 61 days ago • 0 comments

You know what’s gonna be great? When it’s warm enough to be outside. That’s gonna be great.

submitted 62 days ago • 0 comments

Know this— the older you are the worse life gets. Do now what you cannot do later, because with each passing day you are tethered to a life of compounding misery.

submitted 64 days ago • 0 comments

Mom: I’m lucky to be this old. Also mom: don’t grow old!

submitted 67 days ago • 0 comments

My mom just remembered my birthday (is next month)! She was excited to tell me it was her mother’s birthday, but hey, she recognized the date. 👍🤣

submitted 68 days ago • 0 comments

Mom is mad because the staff in this medical facility is terrible. Just to be clear, I’m only trained in First And and CPR. And this her house. That she’s lived in for 40 years.

submitted 73 days ago • 0 comments

Dementia makes the decisions around here and I don’t get to go to the protest today. I’m crying. I wanted to be a person that fought back and now I’m just letting it happen. I’m so sorry! 😭😭😭

submitted 73 days ago • 0 comments

Two things might kill me before dementia kills mom: the constant never ending repetitive questions, and the passive aggressive way she asks for things and answers questions. Dementia is only responsible for one of those things.

submitted 73 days ago • 0 comments

Don’t sleep on estate sales if you’re looking for supplies and assists like walkers, wheelchairs, and shower chairs. I saved $150 today by buying at an estate sale rather than buying retail.

submitted 73 days ago • 0 comments

Here’s an idea that’ll piss off the GenX and older white Christian men: put baby changing tables in the men’s room or make bathrooms gender neutral. Went to breakfast this morning and had to wait for the handicap stall to become available because a man was in there changing his baby’s diaper. Cont…

submitted 78 days ago • 1 comment

Me: would you like to dry dishes or just sit here? Mom: well I’m here so I may as well stay here. Anyone else have a parent so passive aggressive that they literally cannot answer a question with a direct answer? She makes me crazy.

submitted 79 days ago • 0 comments

Google tells me the opposite of “milestone” (achievement) is “failure”. That doesn’t seem to apply here. So decline has to fit? Mom can no longer hang clothes on hangers. She did indeed fail, and yet it is still a milestone of sorts. It’s a milestone of failure?

submitted 87 days ago • 0 comments

Mom and I will be at the Toledo protest. 2pm, Summit St side of the Craig St Bridge Join us! 😊

submitted 89 days ago • 0 comments

Mom doesn’t know who I am. She doesn’t recognize the house she’s been living in for nearly 40 years. She has no idea she has grandsons. But she knows when the Ides of March are. Because she remembers the important things 🙄

submitted 92 days ago • 0 comments

Marcy Kaptur of Ohio voted to censure Rep. Green. She needs to lose her next race.

submitted 103 days ago • 0 comments

My mom’s financial advisor just told me to put my mother in a nursing home bc she has long term care insurance. This way she’ll save money and have more for her daily expenses after she dies. SMH

submitted 103 days ago • 0 comments

Car manufacturers that voted for tariffs don’t get to go to DC and beg for the tariffs be lifted. They can suck it up and consumers can buy used cars. There no crying in capitalism.

submitted 103 days ago • 0 comments

After Bob Evans lied and stole yesterday I found a worthy restaurant and I couldn’t be happier. I’ve loved Barry Bagel for 51 years so I was scared to look them up. What if I have to give up my beloved Barry’s? But hurrah, Barry Bagel loves democracy too! We had a delicious lunch today 😁😁😁

submitted 103 days ago • 0 comments

Cutting Medicaid is modern day Eugenics ~50% of disabled children are on Medicaid 1 in 4 disabled people are on Medicaid Medicaid covers long term care for the elderly They are targeting Medicaid because they don't value people they don't deem "fit"

submitted 105 days ago • 10 comments