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DA survivor & advocate. Passionate about helping those stuck in the cycle of abuse regardless of race or sex,as abuse does not discriminate. Provide guidance to escape toxicity, so that victims can gain empowerment & lead a more elevated & fulfilling life.
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www.tiktok.com/t/ZP86bQhkw/ “Why didn’t you just leave?” is victim blaming. It’s easy for those on the outside to say what they would’ve done. However, abuse is never just physical. It’s really the emotional & psychological duress that keeps a person mentally trapped in these escalating situations.

submitted 22 days ago • 0 comments

Abusers employ Flying Monkeys to do their bidding, so they can wash their hands of accountability. Reporting back to them your every move, thoughts and feelings, under the guise they are a shoulder to cry on. They blindly support and enable your abuser for their own gain.

submitted 41 days ago • 0 comments

www.tiktok.com/t/ZP82EAJHn/ Subtle example of Raging. An abuse tactic that encompasses verbal assaults at close range, hitting walls/breaking items, to elicit fear. Can include restraining& pushing. This behavior is often overlooked by victims but DOES escalate.Call the police. File the report.

submitted 67 days ago • 0 comments

Are you stuck in the Cycle of Abuse?Signs may seem obvious 4 some, but the truth is many never make the connection. I was belittled, rage baited, mocked &on occasion restrained, but because I never ended up in the ER, I didn’t believe I was being abused. Broken bones &bruises are not the only form.

submitted 75 days ago • 0 comments

Empowered women, Empower women. Always be on the lookout for the opportunity to help straighten another woman’s crown. 👑

submitted 83 days ago • 1 comment