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"Ben"; gay trans man; early 30s; neurodiverse and messy. I also probably talk too much. :)
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Let me just say this, and maybe I'll feel better for doing it: I'm deathly scared of losing access to testosterone.

I know BlueSky is on to something because all the worst people you know are raging against it

+ The "argument" behind "trans men should do a bathroom protest on their own" is basically "but look how normal they look!! they just look like normal men!!" which is a terrible fucking argument to make because it just upholds "passing privilege"? Everything about this is so badly thought out.

I hate that "trans men should bathroom protest but only the trans men" post so much and I hate everyone who has partaken in it without realising they're objectifying trans men by volunteering our bodies to protest to "highlight the absurdity" without even considering our safety. Fuck all of you lol.

the part of me who wants to fight for queer solidarity vs the part of me constantly confronted by the fact most of you don't take trans men seriously and have no self awareness about it

for bsky to be an echo chamber, leftists would actually have to listen to each other, which in practice

[trans man gets manhandled or assaulted] lefties: that's what I call necessary sacrifice

Trans men aren't your human shields actually.

"the vaccines gave my dog autism" 😭😭😭

Serious question about the echo chamber: What *is* there to talk about with people who don’t believe in liberal democracy, honoring treaties, or state capacity beyond the ability to make libs sad and explode the occasional Iranian? From a foundational perspective, what do I have to work with here?

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on that note, remember not to directly engage with bad faith posters. just block and if they break TOS, report them too. by responding to them you just widen their platform on here.

When someone calls themselves "an old school gay" with the definition being "I am incoherently transphobic" what it actually means is "none of the other gays liked me"

I hate being disabled and poor I would like to make Purchases

October 31st 1989. 'Surrender Donald'. ACTUP protests the huge tax breaks Trump is given for his New York property developments while people with AIDS become homeless because of government inaction on the disease. #trump #ACTUP #newyork #hivaids #lgbtqhistory #queerhistory

I think it speaks volumes that right wingers criticize bluesky for being “liberal” and “left wing”, when it’s really just that hate speech isn’t allowed.

Perfectly executed www.thebeaverton.com/2024/11/opin...

This is an update post. I still need a new car. But am safe for now rent wise. Less urgent mutual aid. Venmo is Xander9 Cashapp is lexibee69 Paypal is Xanderbee1

so stupid we never made those radiation cats what's even the point guys? tell me that. what's even the point

It's all tied together and don't let them trick you into thinking it's for safety

Happy 37th anniversary of the Max Headroom Incident, to those who celebrate.

I could not sit silent while an elected official who spreads hate & lies that are getting trans people killed pretends to care about the future of the Internet. So I spoke up during Rep Nancy Mace's speech at the Project Liberty Summit & I would do it again www.fightforthefuture.org/news/2024-11...

How to turn off MS Word scraping your writing to train its AI medium.com/illumination...

being on a social media that has actual moderation is crazy

😇! (Don’t forget)

[To the tune of 'Wouldn't It Be Nice' by The Beach Boys] 🎵Wouldn't it be nice 🎵To eat a Minion 🎵Holding up a towel to hide from god 🎵And wouldn't it be nice 🎵Though quite forbidden 🎵Savouring the yellow flesh of Bob

EUROPEANS AND INSOMNIACS BE LOUDER

In theory I support UFO disclosure but in practice I think humanity has so much of their own shit to take care of first and the NHI are probably aware of this and eating popcorn while they wait to figure out if they'll be sending ambassadors or archaeologists to Earth in 50 years.

bsky really feels like the place to evacuate for people who are sick of the toxicity of social media. I don't even just mean twitter because tumblr is pretty cursed these days too. every fandom is 90% hostility and infighting at this point.

I feel like videogames actually do provide a pretty accurate representation of real life right now because a lot of videogames are like “THE WORLD IS ENDING” and then you just collect herbs and pretend nothing is wrong

It may be hard for some to accept, but the truth is the fate of all women is inherently tied to the fate of trans women.

been agoraphobic for 10+ yrs and accidentally became a regular at a gaming store where I buy Pokemon cards and Dragonball figures and I only realised the other day when I walked in and literally every worker said hello to me and wanted to engage in conversation. wtf.

someone make me roll this spliff I keep zoning out