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The right divorced reality long ago. They can believe in the man in the sky but not climate change. The left believes you can be any gender. Please, where's the rational people? Trauma must be healed first, and we do that through healthy connections.
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Great article. We need to separate the work of 1.) finding out what's true (science, ideally), from 2.) the work of determining what's fair, right and just (morality & ethics), and 3.) how best to legislate and live with both truth and justice (politics). www.bostonglobe.com/2025/02/20/o...

I like thinking that if AGI comes, humanity will see the truth about itself and its environment. We are going to see that gods are fantasy projections, we are a species of mammals with two sexes, we and our leaders are full of unresolved childhood trauma, and climate change is real. My fantasy :-)

youtu.be/P2DKVjwD7uU ACE study, linking childhood experiences and adult health.

God could be the outer projection of the Self, I mean the IFS Self. When somebody projects it, there must be some dissociation, some escaping.

I have this model of politics as resting on universal, unresolved childhood experiences of being the victim in the family. I maintain that both sides of the spectrum would be trapped in projection and resolution attempt, without understanding the inner conflict, without ever solving it.

One of those paradoxes: #trauma is the denial of trauma. Unhealed wound, denying there is any unhealed wound, denying of the own suffering.

I'm thinking that you/we are all wrong. It's all unresolved trauma. You hate all men instead of the one responsible. Or you believe there is a loving man in the sky to avoid seeing truly the unloving man in your childhood.

The world is crazy. Maybe this is not the way to heal it. We should do one man and one woman at a time. But I don't have the energy. Confronting the madness is not the right thing. The issue is emotional and only connection heals. First we heal, then we heal others. Or together we heal.