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She/Her 29 Just here floating on a giant space rock like everyone else and living as best as I can. Science is my life and poetry is my lover.
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Everytime I start to feel the slightest sadness that I'm bad at drawing attention to myself in the way I see others do, I remember how easily I get overwhelmed when I'm being perceived. Between that and how often I see attention go sideways on folks, I think it's best I stay in my little corner.

That there were hoops that I had to jump through to deserve it. Now, I know that love doesn't work like that but I'm really sad for the younger me that didn't feel like she was enough for love to reach her.

Just remembered another one I hate. "Can you see/look through your glasses?" Just to call me blind Or "Why don't you get contacts?"

"why don't you just (insert thing that they aren't paying for or helping me with that isn't even helpful to suggest I do)?" I hated it, especially when I was still in college and folks that wasn't putting a single penny towards my tuition asked why I didn't go somewhere else for school.

There's something truly beautiful about feeling like I've reclaimed some sense of control over my life and the way things in it affects me.

I like how if I don’t wanna see anymore I’ll just take my glasses off

anyway do not expect people who aren’t fluent in english to post in perfect english. it’s a godless language anyway and i have no respect for it.

I deserve better and I’m gonna get it. These are life lessons. I’m being protected from people who aren’t aligned with me. It’s a lil lonely but I’ve seen what misalignment does. I’d rather be alone.

May the fourth be with you 😘

Depression sucks Anxiety sucks Grief sucks

If you think being a teacher is simple you need to drink a large hot cup of shut the fuck up

Every moment that I get to spend in a world that allows me to know you is a moment that I know gratitude. Evey sound of your voice makes me thankful for working ears. Every sight of you makes me thankful for working eyes. Every embrace makes me happy for the sense of touch. Knowing you is joyous.

The number of times you can say "this isn't us" before you have to admit that "this IS you" shouldn't be this many. Indigenous genocide, slavery, Jim Crow, internment, women's rights, and Japanese internment are all things you KNOW happened but you somehow believe weren't representative of USA.

Most people use a lens hood to manage glare and lens flare. I need mine to protect my lens from sheep and goats. 😆

You know what’s a panty dropper? Knowing a man wants to spend time with you doin something other than fxckn.

With my precious momma's birthday and mother's day being literally a sunset apart, I'm really proud of this gift basket I made for her. I think she'll really like it, especially with the hand made cards that'll have personal hand written notes in them.

without intimacy, sex is pointless to me. I’ve felt like this for a long time too.

I'd say that it makes them appreciate you less because now they know that you'll do just about anything for them and that you probably care more about them more than they or you care about you.

Not sure if heeled boots count but that's all I got for the time being. I gotta reinvest in heels.

If you’re reading this I hope you have a wonderful day. I hope the day is good to you. Drink some water. Be kind to yourself always.

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and to all my survivors of abuse i’m so so proud of you. your strength is unmatched and you guys truly deserve the world. always here for you guys 🤞🏿

Barsssssss

Whether you're giving them sex often or not at all, if they want to cheat they will cheat. Sex will not save your relationship.

being a good man isn’t enough you need to be a good man for ME. learn me, love me, LIKE me. emotional safety, compatibility and effort is more important to me than just being a “good guy” on paper.

An overwhelming amount of us grew up in abusive households (physically, mentally, sexually+), are taught to accept and hide that abuse by the ppl who “love” us, and then are later demonized for not “choosing better” when we experience that same abuse from partners who “love” us. It’s an evil pattern

I really should wear skirts and dresses more often, especially that pink floral one.

I'm gonna affirm myself extra hard and tell myself that I'm one of the cutest, baddest bitches out and that every statement about beautiful, hot bod having black women is meant for me. Cause 1) I deserve that affirmation and 2) my mental health needs it.

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Oh! I thought that the normal response when I do that. 😅 They be trying to run so hard, it's kinda hilarious.

I would only say it if I meant it cause I just know that a nigga would do it. That being said, I can see why folks want it. 🙃🫠

One day we’ll talk about how a lot of women are secretly (it’s not a secret anymore) homophobic & it shows in how quickly they are to call men gay over very minuscule things.

Just woke up to an odd memory that made me realize something. If a guy really wanted to make sure I ate, he could easily do it by taking me somewhere with a simple menu, buying food, placing it in front of me and just telling me to eat. A guy I was cool with did it in college and it set a precedent.