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I share reflections on healing trauma and building transformative relationships. Join me to explore growth, resilience, and love while challenging systemic forces. 🌿💛 #TraumaHealing #Relationships #Growth #Resilience #Love #HealingJourney #Intersectional
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Happy Valentine's Day for all who are celebrating today. Would you believe me that we aren't celebrating anymore but have a better relationship today than when we did celebrate? Read more in my Substack: harperevelyn.substack.com/p/is-your-lo...

submitted 134 days ago • 0 comments

We have been #divided in every way possible as a nation. The saddest of which is by #gender. #Rebel against the tyranny they are trying to bring into your bedroom. Dare to heal & thrive in your relationship instead of hating one another because they told you to. *for safe couples only

submitted 141 days ago • 0 comments

Yes! My husband and I are very honest and direct with one another. Too many people see this as disagreement instead of honoring each other. This is true in groups and organizations too.

submitted 142 days ago • 0 comments

We are divided in so many ways in the US. It doesn’t have to be that way. If we are isolated, we are more easily controlled. With the breakdown of “the village”, your partner is filling more roles than ever. Make that more sustainable by learning to heal and grow together harperevelyn.substack.com

submitted 144 days ago • 0 comments

Ah yes, hitting our children was definitely a better way to help them to pay attention in class when they had documented disabilities. 🙄 Forcing our children to be compliant and sit in desks all day is not good for them...maybe we should look at the real root cause instead of victim shaming.

submitted 147 days ago • 1 comment

#Patriarchy hurts #men just as much as it hurts #women. It also hurts our #children. It does all this harm by devaluing life. How did we ever accept this as humans? We don't have to continue to perpetuate it though... Have you dared to #deconstruct from your #programming yet?

submitted 148 days ago • 0 comments

This đź‘Ź all đź‘Ź of đź‘Ź thisđź‘Ź yes! When it comes to our relationships, we MUST unlearn from our programming in order to be able to learn how to love ourselves and others better. It does take courage to unlearn. If you're ready to start that process, check out my Substack! Happy Friday y'all!

submitted 148 days ago • 0 comments

💙 Healing from trauma while in a relationship is possible. The way we fight, shut down, or disconnect often comes from wounds we didn’t choose—but we can choose to break the cycle. Learn more here: harperevelyn.substack.com/p/staying-to... ✨ #RelationalHealing #BreakTheCycle #HealingThroughLove

submitted 148 days ago • 0 comments

Thrilled to finally be dropping the first post on my #Substack this Friday! I want to help you have better #relationships and work through your unresolved #trauma to love yourself and those close to you better this year! I hope you'll join me! open.substack.com/pub/harperev...

submitted 150 days ago • 0 comments

I was better able to love my husband as a direct result of connecting to self-love. You may have heard that you "can't love others until you learn to love yourself," but this is misleading. While you can love someone before you love yourself, you get so much better at it once you love yourself.

submitted 155 days ago • 1 comment