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Your favorite archaeologist, historian, and curator. Chicagoan melting in the South. Dissertating Tarheel (Writing about Black Feminist worldmaking and 1990s R&B) #OnThatGayShit. Some random emojis that may or may not mean things: 💚🩷🌻🦚🪞
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I’m sorry but “I’m autistic and dehydrated” might be the funniest excuse I’ve ever seen 😭😭😭😭😭

No one should be “the prize.” It’s actually dehumanizing and delusional to think of yourself or someone else as such. Also, none of us are “the prize” because we’re all flawed.

Run Haiti their money back while y’all suddenly standing on this moral high ground! 😪

The gag is: neurodivergent people are some of the best communicators because we’ve had to explain ourselves (thoughts, words, actions) to neurotypical ppl our whole lives. Ppl who “apologize” like this are actually just garbage and no grace should be extended to them.

The people in my life are so dope. Been in conference with @n9l5.bsky.social for a bit and the gems that tumble out of the mouth part of his face 🤌🏽 The Titanic is resting at the bottom of this brain

Last day of freedom

I been laughing at this shit for 3 minutes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Me: *is sad* Also me: time for a joke!

Clarissa didn’t explain any of this.

So far I had one nerd gummy cluster and that’s it. I guess I should go make a food at some point.

Every time I see this picture I can’t stop looking at the dirt under his nails… 🤢

I love him so much 😭

I call my grandpa to chat every Sunday. We’ve developed a very sophisticated weather reporting system for some reason. It happens at the very beginning and end of the call. Lol.

My ancestors this morning:

She asked cause she was never going to cancel the date. Just wants a reason to argue and validate her stupid decision.

Mystery solved, I suppose.

Interesting…

Sponge season 🧽! (also i want to hear what your brain has to say about neurodivergence and default faucet activity…cuz mine has been connecting dots)

I really did need this week to do nothing. Had a therapy session, check in with my godmother, several chats with my mommy, and some friend time. I have so much clarity and calmness. No fatigue, confusion, anger, frustration, stress. Just “…oh” It’s okay, i mean the world is on fire, but I’m okay

I’m thankful for endless blessings, for the love, grace, and favor that surround me each day.

After a full 5 days of waking up with a song/video stuck in my head, i finally watched it again and felt the last bit of tension leave my body.

Baby that and a jean jacket with every outfit! And imma keep doing it!

I’m ready to own the fact that I am ~obsessed~ with embroidery journals…I think this is such a cool idea and it’s also very adorable

I will never tire of this style joke. NEVER 😂

People just assuming how I’m going to feel about something and not asking me will always be weird to me. I like being understood and I have no issue being direct and transparent about my thoughts and feelings. I’ve always been like this…

Spring break is ending and I don’t like it…I need another month to sit down.

Yeth. Black, quirky, socially and self aware, curious, considerate, extremely affectionate, not short, not too femme but also not too masc, switchy. Locs are always a plus

No but I want to live with my person and ask them to taste test all of the little soups I’ve gathered into my IG recipe collection and just do that until one or both of us dies.

1985

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I am grateful for my experiences with people and if they end, they end. I do not want anyone to feel obligated to me. I want to be looked forward to and excited about, platonically and otherwise. So, if something comes to an end, my heart has room to hold the memories and welcome new ones. 😊🩷

This is so dope. 🥹

Idk what it is about gummies but I am fighting for my life I need a young priest and an old priest

Lowkey, Darkwing Duck had that shit on…

Ross’ Darkwing Duck (Jim Starling Edition) fit on Drag Race tonight is killing me

All SLACKS!

I love them…yasssssss…come on 🔥🔥🔥