jessnorlax.bsky.social
she/her x 📍🇳🇿 x '94 x demi x neurospicy✌️
I hope one day you find the bravery within yourself to be honest.
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oh that's cool, site looks amazing guys!
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Cute! ✨
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God, I wish it did work like that tho..
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Holy shit, that's stunningggg 🧡✨🌚
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Reminder for self, He either-
lied & called my work to threaten me OR;
was honest & really never cared enough to remember where I'd been working for the last 8 yrs & it was one of his friends who found my (since deleted ty) work ph number on LinkedIn.
Fucked either way.
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omg.
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No expert on dioramas but I review houses for a living, and it involves a lot of spot the difference from plans to built form 😅
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Yeah, the inconsistencies in the middle ground are the darker trees on the left against the sky, the top glazing bars on the windows are bent, the windows are different widths, there's an extra weatherboard on the left hand side and/or the weatherboards aren't the same sizes, the posts aren't level.
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Thanks for explaining! I honestly didn't know people did that, Ive always assumed good intentions behind that advice. I think, as a society, the more we accept the idea of therapy, it'll lose power as an insult.
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Oh ok, that's good 😊
Genuine question tho, not being a smartass, just want to understand: What are you talking about then, do you have an example?
Is it trolls being mean on purpose suggesting therapy like its a bad thing or people who are trying to help?
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Could also very well just be badly Photoshopped (AI ?) of a real photo of a poorly made diorama.
The middle ground doesn't make sense but the fern and steps stones in focus are consistent.
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Sometimes people come on here asking for advice on a complex issue that involves "how can i stop feeling or behaving this way?", and there's genuinely no other safe, appropriate or morally responsible advice you can give other than "hey, are you able to talk about this with a professional?".
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If a psychiatrist were to say "oh no actually, youre not autistic- its x" I'd be fucking thrilled. Treatment pathways could be so much clearer.
Autism is actually really confronting, there's no one strategy or therapy and it's lifelong.
Then to add that kind of doubt and judgement from others.. 😮💨
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*disclaimer: this may only work if your visitors also have adhd 😬
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Never a bad idea to practice 👀
I'd tackle the skirt first, i was actually sitting here thinking about how I would do it (as if I have any time to be starting up a new a project 😂)
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Omggg i wanna see that dress made irl, that's so fucking pretty 😍
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Forgive, but dont forget- or heaven forbid we make the same mistakes again
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we can cry about it today and do better about it tomorrow 😭✌️
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In my attempts at not bothering other people with my problems, I'm still very much bothering other people with my problems *while also* making them feel guilty and/or pity and/or responsible *and* leaving no door open for communication on the matter at all 😭😭😭 jfc.
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But I'm not a good actor, so i end up indirectly hinting at my needs anyway and that still ends up putting a burden on the other person except now they can't say no.
I hadn't thought about it like that, something i need to work on.
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This tells me, we all have a responsibility to show up *consistently* for the ppl we love, and on the flip side, it's important to recognise when we are the ones obsessively pushing the button.
If someone is bringing out insecure attachment in you it's more likely just addiction, not love.
(Pt 4/4)
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However, when the pigeon pushed the button but only got food *some* of the time (inconsistent outcome) the pigeons started obsessively pushing the button more, even when they weren't hungry.
(Pt 3/4)
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E.g. B F. Skinners experiment- pigeon pushes button (specific behaviour) & always gets food after pressing the button (consistent outcome), the pigeons would press the button when they wanted food.
(Pt 2/?)