lasivian.bsky.social
Just your average bitter lonely human that nobody gives a shit about.
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I do wood carving, fishing, play video games.
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The groups and support systems you mention are things denied to me.
One side of the fence thinks the other has it easier while they fight their battles together.
The other side of the fence is wishing it had any support group that wasn't insane and trying not to die from loneliness.
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I asked for a word for clarification. If you see a fight or argument here that's your issue.
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Yeah, I know firsthand that it's easy to have no friends, and be loved by nobody.
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Okay. So what do we call a man that does that for a woman?
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I think they would be lucky to get 30 cents on the dollar.
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Women complain that they haven't gotten a compliment all day. While men still remember a compliment they got decades ago
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Google "consensual non-consent".
However I completely agree with you that "stop" should be respected unless otherwise negotiated beforehand.
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I like to say that I'm not going to put a gun to my head, but I'm not going to be angry if I don't wake up in the morning either. 😐
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I think it doesn't really matter.
Either they wanted to cut DEI, or they're trying to make it look like they cut DEI.
In either case the response of those in favor of DEI is the same.
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Unfortunately some of us don't have any friends or family. I've been trying to find my people for 40 years, and it's been an absolute disaster the entire time. 😐
I'm sorry. I think I'm just being bitter on your post.
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I envy you.
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Some other countries have laws that prohibit a candidate from speaking about their opponent at all. I am completely in favor of that in the United States.
Unfortunately we can't legislate morality.
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Are you trying to say that men over 40 are the busy ones?
Because I retired at 45. I got nothing but time in my life. 😝🤣👍
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I love this. I think I'm an extrovert, but not extroverted. I love being around people, but I have horrible social anxiety.
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Doesn't surprise me a bit. The huge energy companies can't control the Sun or the wind, therefore they want to stop people from being able to access it.
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At least you still have friends.
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The thing I really want the most is honesty when it comes to not being what someone else wants.
It hurts to know you are not what someone else wants. It hurts more to be strung along and lied to.
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I want that too
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Very few people are actually capable of being alone. Humans just aren't good at it.
No matter how highly I think of myself, no matter how much I love myself, no matter how much I value myself, I don't want to just be by myself.
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So I am trying to understand this.
You want women to be more supportive of women and less supportive of men? 🤔
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I really hate to admit it, but the civil Rights act is an example of how you cannot legislate morality. 😢
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*hugs*, I know that feeling all too well. 😢
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Unhinged is such a strange word.
It implies that somehow being hinged means you are normal.
And really I don't understand how that is at all logical. 😅
Unless perhaps you are a door. 😝
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Some of us have spent a lifetime looking for those people. And realized they don't exist.
Loving yourself and thinking that you are attractive does not mean anyone else finds you attractive or lovable.
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More people stayed home than voted. People are waiting for a change election. Especially young people. They are tired of getting the same shit over and over again. The United States needs a second political party.
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So what are you going to tell them when they find themselves attractive but the men they want don't find them attractive?
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Unfortunately the world shows me it's true. I'm old, I'm unattractive, and even average women want the perfect man. 🤷🏼♂️
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I really hate to say it in this case. But civil rights law is one situation where they just couldn't legislate morality. 😢
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Oh, pardon me, I thought you were a human being capable of basic understanding and compassion. My mistake.
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This is why I want a social media company that charges a small basic fee to all users. So I get the benefits of a paid subscription.
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What you don't realize is that I was raised by two lesbian feminists.
The moment I started asking for equity like they did while also being male was when people started calling me an incel.
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The mistake here was me thinking you wanted anything but a fight here.
You are the one that is angry. I don't feel like putting up with it.
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You have no idea how much I envy you. 😊
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"Incel" is just a catchphrase now for men that say they are unhappy.
I have literally posted that my problems as a man were caused by the patriarchy and been called an incel. 🤷🏼♂️
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Well let me shatter your assumption.
The thought I had was that you're in the same boat I am. A desire for mutual attraction, but stuck with additional desires for morality, compassion, and perceptive understanding.
Trying to decide which preference to compromise.
There's no hate here from me.😐
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Sounds like a deep question
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Reality
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Something tells me there is more to it than this.
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Well, look at the bright side, at least someone found you attractive. 😊
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I'm doing my part! 🏴☠️
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I use ChatGPT to debug my computer code because I'm not a programmer.
It's not something I get paid for either. 🤷🏼♂️