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localcommienarwhal.bsky.social
30s | he/him | awkward bean just taking this one day at a time
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i love my facial hair now and wish I still had that little unibrow. I miss it. I think about how small comments about someone's appearance can permanently change their self-image. I wasn't self-conscious about that hair until someone attached it to a word i had been taught meant ugly and gross
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The woman tried to insist it was cute, but I couldn't stop thinking about it. when I got a bit older and started plucking my eyebrows, I was ruthless toward any hair between my eyebrows. even now that I don't do my brows anymore, the hair there won't grow back how it was
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Thanks! I have spent a long time working on being nicer than I was taught to be. Who cares if it "doesn't make a difference" by being nice to a plant or something. Have they ever thought that maybe I just want to be nice? Even if what I'm being nice to doesn't understand?
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Even if it didn't (which it does. Science says so) who doesn't love telling their plants that they're doing a good job? I find it strange when people say they don't talk to their plants. They're good little guys and it's nice to encourage them regardless if it actually makes a difference or not.