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madame-simone.de
Cis, she/her. Sexwork activist. Professional Dominatrix. Kink Coach. Crazy Cat Lady. Vegan Food. trans* rights! Profile picture: reflection of my face in a makeup mirror Header: a red high heel poking into a butt cheek
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I had a little visitor this morning. Thanks to the interwebs I know now that it's a so called hornet mimic hoverfly ("Hornissenschwebfliege" in German). It's almost as big as the real hornets I have in my garden, but a pretty chill dude. 🙂

The financial aspect of being a ProDomme is more like crowdsourcing to Me. Without many subs contributing- by paying for clips, sending tips, investing in My wardrobe and equipment, volunteering their skills- I wouldn't be able to exist as a Domme.

It's finally summer. So just a quick but important reminder: wash your emotional support water bottle! Yes, you too back there! 😉

Have you checked in with yourself regarding your ever-changing limits and boundaries? Stay healthy.

(1/4) I’ve made this exact acknowledgment before. However, I’m making it again. #NationalHIVTestingDay recognizes the importance of routine HIV testing, status awareness, and access to treatment. Testing is important, as is access to information, resources, care, and voluntary testing.

Lovely thread about #feet and #footworship. "Unauthorised foot choking" had me in stitches! 🤣

No to EU plans for #DataRetention by service providers for law enforcement! edri.org/our-work/joi...

Finally … I did it! Mit ihrer Majestät, der BBC (yes, that BBC), habe ich als Produzentin hinter der Kamera an diesem kleinen Meisterwerk über meine geliebte Stadt Köln mitgewirkt.

CN: Death, cancer At the beginning of March, a lovely former colleague died of cancer. She was one of the first persons I met at the beginning of my career as a pro domme. On a daily basis, her wife posts about her grief and I feel so very helpless. There's just nothing I can do to ease the pain 😔

The privilege of kneeling before me has to be granted. You will not just fall on your knees without being told so. Why would I want you on your knees before I even get to know you? My dominance isn't a handout for everyone. There are rules. #madame #dominance #bdsm #kink

We already established that cooking and baking is one of my love languages. Definitely one of the more important ones. But I especially love to make safe foods for people I care for. It makes them happy the most, and that's what makes me happy too. 😍

If you don't want to see any pictures or posts related to kink, BDSM, my sex work: mute #madame We tried, you're not gonna mute all of my posts just because madame is in my name. However, this is the account of a Pro Domme. If that's something you don't want to engage with, maybe don't follow.

I offer sessions for couples. It doesn't matter whether both are submissive, whether it's an active/passive constellation etc. But please don't ask for an hour. I start at 90 minutes for couples sessions and I think that's already *very* little time to get involved with two people at the same time.

Gibt es jemanden hier, der sich im Berliner Bildungsdschungel auskennt? Zu Abschlüssen und Bildungswegen nach/in der Oberschule. Die Berufsberatung in der Schule, die Schulleitung,das Klassenteam und das Schulamt widersprechen sich gegenseitig oder erklären sich für nicht zuständig.

Every day when I watch the news from the US, I wonder what parallel world we live in. I would very much prefer to see the vulnerable people in safe countries. And then I realise that life is dangerous almost everywhere for queer, especially trans, BIPoC and migrant people etc.

SERVE DOMINA. BOOK DOMINA. LINKS IN BIO. 7 years experience, RACK trained evil goth dominatrix. Nomadic. ✈️ GRUDGINGLY back on the internet. 🐍 #findom #femdom #dominatrix

Food As it was St John's eve (we call it "Johannisnacht") I took the opportunity to bake a vegan redcurrant cake. In German those berries are called "Johannisbeeren". It's tart and sweet and yummy. And to be fair, I'll always find a reason to bake 😉

Omg. I'm screaming! Dude on the interwebs asks why his Caffettiera (or Bialetti Espresso Maker) looks so weird after he's put it in the dishwasher. 💀 The d i s h w a s h e r! RIP that poor thing. 💀 Do not put the Caffettiera in the fucking dishwasher!

Just had an absolute gen X moment. (Keep in mind: I turned 23 in the year 2000.) So, I'm scrolling through TikTok, and a very cute young lady talks about her new low rise jeans and how much she loves them. I'm waiting for the reveal and then it hit me. She was talking about the jeans she's wearing.

I feel numb now that the evaluation of the ProstSchG is over. So many of us have been activists for years (many much longer than me). We did the political hard work. The main goal was always that the law had to go, but we all realised that this would not happen.

The evaluation of the so-called Prostitution Protection Act (ProstSchG) in Germany has been completed. Not unexpectedly, the obligation to register and the associated risks of being outed are not called into question. There are a few good recommendations, and above all: no "we need a Nordic Model"!

Why is jealousy always seen as the mortal enemy and worst evil in polyamorous circles? Jealousy is a completely normal feeling. Not inherently good or bad. The question of how you deal with it either makes it a problem or not, but you don't have to be afraid of being jealous.

I was recently asked what kind of submissive men I find attractive. I don't. I find personalities attractive, not an identification as submissive. My anchor partner isn't a sub, he's a switch and fetishist and yes, it's beneficial for our sex life, that he wants to submit to me. 😉