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memoryhouse.bsky.social
Musician, barista, business owner. I’m easy to get along with if you are honest. I can be intense (and too straightforward) but never with ill intention.
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I really do believe in accountability and the pursuit of it. However, to believe that is all that plays a role in how a situation turns out would be naive. In the court of public opinion, being a man automatically makes you the likely culprit. And I get that, honestly.

submitted 3 hours ago • 1 comment

I was told someone who hurt me was hurting other men in the same way, and one of the victims leaked her nudes. Like, seriously dude? Way to wreck your own argument and leave men in an even worse position. All you had to do was show the texts.

submitted 3 hours ago • 1 comment

It's possible to call out a woman without being misogynistic, by the way. Dunno why it's so hard for people to understand that.

submitted 3 hours ago • 0 comments

Why would I ask for help when no one really cares?

submitted 1 day ago • 0 comments

Might be having a panic attack. I don’t know yet, something isn’t right.

submitted 1 day ago • 0 comments

Sudden sinking feeling.

submitted 1 day ago • 0 comments

Compassion and empathy are essential. But you aren’t forced to give it freely. Not in a transactional way, rather knowing when a person isn’t worthy of those virtues from you.

submitted 1 day ago • 1 comment

Raspberries and sugar left in a mason jar overnight for some syrupy goodness. A few drops on top of my cappuccino and there you go. It's so fucking good.

submitted 1 day ago • 0 comments

The part I dislike about y’all using the phrase ^check on your friends^ after someone dies, is no one actually engages when you do ask for help. It’s just shit you tell yourselves to not feel guilty for bailing on someone who needed you.

submitted 2 days ago • 0 comments

youtube.com/watch?v=LV15... Vera Farmiga in a goth metal band wasn’t on my 2025 bingo card.

submitted 2 days ago • 1 comment

I'm going to try Bumble's most expensive subscription for one month, to prove the point I've been making for years: I'm just ugly.

submitted 2 days ago • 0 comments

Odds of suicide are rising, in case you want to place a bet.

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

When I say I don't matter, it's because I've never been made to feel like I matter.

submitted 4 days ago • 0 comments

I’m not a man of fantasies. But this would be a nice change for me.

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

Dreamt bout one of my first loves. Can’t imagine how my life would’ve turned out if we had worked, or if I had never met her.

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

I feel very represented.

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

2.24am, disassociating and starved for a warm embrace.

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

When I say I don't matter, it's because I've never been made to feel like I matter.

submitted 4 days ago • 0 comments

Maybe I'm dead wrong and something in me is irreparably broken.

submitted 4 days ago • 0 comments

I wanted to matter to those I care about. It's not a sin, it's not wrong to want that.

submitted 4 days ago • 0 comments

And I let SO MUCH SHIT slide, I swear. Felt like since I'm *less than*, I must keep quiet and move on. For example, the person I considered my best friend for years (long distance), suddenly vanished for around a year. I blamed myself for months, I really fucking suffered.

submitted 4 days ago • 1 comment

I say that because the emotional patterns I've followed for years are clearly flawed. There's no point in chasing people around. They can say they care, they can claim anything. Showing it, however, requires more than words.

submitted 4 days ago • 0 comments

The value of therapy is being able to look at wrongdoing without judgement and damnation as the intrinsic reaction. Doesn't always work, of course.

submitted 4 days ago • 0 comments

First Bumble match in ages: Her: hi, how are you? Me: hi there, I’m doing okay. How about you? 3 hours pass. Me: could you tell me a little about yourself? An hour passes. *unmatched* So yeah, I don’t get what the fuck is wrong with women on this app.

submitted 4 days ago • 0 comments

What’s Yr Fav Dinosaur?

submitted 5 days ago • 0 comments

I can own up to my bullshit. Can you?

submitted 5 days ago • 0 comments

Okay cool. Fuck you, too.

submitted 5 days ago • 0 comments

What could this be?

submitted 6 days ago • 0 comments

This is not suggestive, it’s a body.

submitted 7 days ago • 0 comments

I don’t follow enough Wagon Wednesday practitioners.

submitted 7 days ago • 0 comments

Another hospital visit soon, if this doesn’t get better.

submitted 8 days ago • 0 comments

Fuck. Stop thinking. Stop thinking.

submitted 9 days ago • 0 comments

I’m not going to text. I’m not going to ask for help. Repeating that over and over.

submitted 9 days ago • 0 comments

I mean, heat of the moment is understandable. It's the normalization of demeaning, violent, invasive acts in order to get off. If you gotta get roughed up to cum, you got a problem.

submitted 9 days ago • 0 comments

Maybe I'm weird that way, but I don't think dirty talk means you gotta call each other awful things. You can be very naughty without calling your partner a slut or whore. I just don't believe demeaning should be endorsed as a pleasurable thing.

submitted 9 days ago • 0 comments