memoryhouse.bsky.social
Musician, barista, business owner.
I’m easy to get along with if you are honest. I can be intense (and too straightforward) but never with ill intention.
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There's no way I'd use an argument as absurd as men somehow having it worse. We never have. Doesn't mean we are immune to harm. I was gaslit and manipulated, and never got closure. That's why I returned to therapy back in 2022. And no, it is not fair. Too bad for me, I guess.
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This happened ages ago, it was merely an example to complement the post about misogyny. If you truly have righteousness and truth on your side, why recur to such lows to get a point across?
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It’s like I said. Workers have neither the faculties nor the tools to solve problems on their own. Takes a whole lotta effort and patience.
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It’s always a gamble, depends on the person and how capable they are of handling whatever issue presents. Apparently they can only hang up if you curse at them.
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It’s not the workers’ fault. Rarely is. System failure.
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It’s a structural issue within companies. Automation works to a certain extent. No one ever has enough faculties to solve your problem, so you jump from call center to supervisor to boss to janitor and no one gives you a damn answer. It is purposefully done by corporations to tire you out.
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For how long? I've struggled with falling asleep most of my life, but only a few years ago was told my airways were so fucked up I wasn't getting air, causing micro apnea. Basically never was able to fully get to the point where my body would rest.
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Do you struggle with sleeping?
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Glad you liked it.
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These two women were important to me. And were others who've ghosted me. The pattern I'm worried about is not people leaving, it's the fact I let it slide every goddamn time, because I'm terrified of not mattering. But I never did matter to them, did I?
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In fact, I discussed it with my therapist last week. How to confront her, regardless of consequences. I mean, I care about her, but getting mad at me over a crappy delay...when she's capable of vanishing, coming back to talk about her issues, and ignore whatever I said.
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Another long distance friend did a similar thing. She got angry I didn't reply in a day. Was at a family gathering after a funeral, but she did not care. She has disappeared for months in the past, comes back like nothing happened. Did I ever complain? Nope. I should have, though.
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I could've easily shattered him with he doesn't know she's told me. I mean it. It could've ended incredibly poorly for him. But I'm just not that kinda person. Surprisingly enough, I did not blame myself at all for what happened.
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Then not long ago she messaged me and we talked for a few days. She apologized profusely, promised she'd make amends and stick around. She vanished again after her partner harassed me on Instagram. He was quite violent in tone. Mind you, I'm not his friend.
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Tried my fav last night, the Orasi Barista Oat milk, and it didn't work at all. Checked the manual and said to only use cow milk, which is a weird flex for this day and age lol. Read somewhere you can work around it, though. Will try pre-warming it and choosing the cold foam feature today.