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mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social
I'm Mistress DragonFly and I really believe that the world would be a much better place if women were in charge. I'm married to a wonderful submissive husband whom has made my dream of a high protocol Female-led relationship possible. We live in Norway.
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After a few months here on Bsky I find that connecting with other strong women is really difficult. There a lots of so called #Dommes out there, but it turns out most of them are just trying trick lonely and vulnerable men into sending them money or buying them stuff. It's SO sad really.

submitted 18 days ago • 3 comments

I have decided to grant my husband's wish to continue this #chastity period as trust-based without a #chastitycage (until July 24 or until a new secure #chastitydevice can be delivered). We'll take it day by day. As a consequence it will be under much stricter control and supervision by me.

submitted 18 days ago • 2 comments

Keeping my husband locked in #chastity is a real hassle for both of us at the moment. Since the good old faithful Lori's tube broke almost 3 weeks ago, we've had to use various old devices. None of them are secure enough, and none of them supports his PA-piercing. He's in the #Bon4M at the moment.

submitted 20 days ago • 2 comments

Amidst the #chastitycage breakdown my husband is also up for his first #prostatemilking in this chastity period. Because I know his libido and his semen buildup extremely well, the draining must take place this coming Friday. I'm not sure I want to peg him. I might use my mechanical #bull.

submitted 38 days ago • 1 comment

I really do need to find a new high security #chastitycage for my husband. I'm looking into several alternatives, but I'm also open for suggestions. Criteria: Long-term wear, PA-piercing, security lock/screws, built to specifications, keys/unlocking tool that can be made into a pendant. #Femdom #FLR

submitted 38 days ago • 4 comments

Your pheromones are really powerful tools if you use them wisely. When my husband's libido is in overdrive, during his long-term #chastity periods, my scents drives him wild. When you understand this you'll have a really powerful tool to control and manipulate you husband with.

submitted 38 days ago • 0 comments

One of the really big advantages of keeping your husband constantly horny and in long-term #chastity is that you get an awesome sex toy that never runs out of battery.

submitted 38 days ago • 0 comments

#sph #smallpenishumiliation

submitted 40 days ago • 1 comment

My Bsky page is all about celebrating the superior female sex and the wonderful female-led relationship lifestyle. Keep scrolling or drop me a DM if you're curious about how to get started. #Femdom #FLR #femaleledrelationship #BDSM #chastity #malechastity #keyholder #pegging #strapon

submitted 42 days ago • 1 comment

Hi @lockeduplesbian.bsky.social . I really like the idea behind the @beltbolt.co.uk and I know it's early in the dev process, but do you have any thoughts on if/how this tech can be implemented in a male "ball-trap" kind of #chastitydevice?

submitted 42 days ago • 1 comment

What are your thoughts and feelings regarding permanent marking of your husbands, slaves, subs, partners, pets etc? I needed a more permanent symbol of ownership than the regular wedding ring, so in 2010 I had my husband tattooed as my property. It's a small symbol of ownership just above his penis.

submitted 43 days ago • 3 comments

Someone just asked me what turns me on. Hoping for something juicy to goon to? I'm sorry to disappoint. My biggest turn on is probably good old fashioned, well dressed, humble, polite and chivalric men who know how to behave around strong women.

submitted 45 days ago • 3 comments

This is "spot on", but from my experience there is a fourth thing necessary for a #FLR to work over time. 4 - Fourth: Libido. Your husband has to be constantly horny. It's the magic ingredient that connects the dots between 1-2-3.

submitted 45 days ago • 0 comments

Someone asked me for a close up picture of the #chastitycage my husband is currently locked. Well here it is: It's a custom designed and handmade device #2C from Lori Lancer. It's made of surgical grade steel. I'm not sure if they're in business any more. It was made in 2010.

submitted 45 days ago • 1 comment

Someone just asked me why I #spank my husband. Well, from our experience adult #domesticdiscipline between two consenting adults really work. We've been doing it for almost 30 years. It has to be real #punishment, NOT #funishment. It's supposed to hurt, and I always spank to tears. #Femdom #Spanking

submitted 45 days ago • 4 comments