nocontactqueen.bsky.social
Survivor of narc abuse. No contact with abusive parents. Healing journey.
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No surprise there. In the UK GPs spend less than one day learning about endometriosis. Zero time on hEDS. No wonder patients go in circles for decades before diagnosis
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Boundaries are self care 🙏🏽
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I’m glad you found a way that worked for you. Your sis too
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Bingo 🎯. Denying your reality and all the years of trash bhvr you were subjected to is the rage-cherry on top of the cake. Did you go NC?
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Exactly. The word narcissist is used a lot incorrectly/flippantly, so people don’t often know the horrific damage and trauma real narcs cause. Take care too 🕊️
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I bought this as a postcard age 12 when I visited NASA. It made me realise how enormous and magical the universe is and that we can’t possibly be alone
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Stunning. When people say heaven this is what I picture. Beautiful cosmos
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So true. I didn’t have a self for more than 30 years. Only when I went no contact, and had freedom to actually be me, did I finally learn who I was, what I liked and what I wanted. Her inner voice had consumed mine from childhood
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Love me a tecognise 😅
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2/2 Will not allow child to mature and separate, genuinely believes they are perfect and right 24/7, no true sense of self (they’ll take/stop yours too), prone to conducting smear campaigns, verbally/emotionally and sometimes physically abusive. Sound familiar? #narcissist #narcissism #trauma #ctpsd
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Yes exactly! It’s hard to explain the insidious, malignant behaviour and how their 24/7 control/manipulation, cruelty strips everything from you. I didn’t know who I was until I was nearly 40, and free. Wishing you peace 🙏🏽🙏🏽
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There is nothing more discombobulating than being unable to trust yourself. Gaslighting is one of the worst elements of narc abuse
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I’m so sorry you went through this. Narcs are so unoriginal. Cookie cutter in their malignant behaviour. Sending you peace 🙏🏽
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She had an affair and left print outs of the 🍆 pics in kitchen. When I asked her to be discreet she shouted at me for two hours. She constantly sought my counsel about her relationship and sX life with my dad. I was 12-14. When I told her no more, she threatened to 🏴☠️ herself
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When she had a party, she would keep me off school to clean the house for her get together. She loved making me ditch school to spend time with her. She also made a tornado of mess daily and I was responsible for all the tidying. She didn’t even work.
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When I was 15, my friends and I went to the local park in the dark to see if there were ghosts. She grounded me for six months.
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Told me my relatives didn’t want to see me and hated me. In truth, she and my dad had banished them from my life when I was a child, forbidding them from seeing me or saying hello to me in the street.
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Threatened to not come to my wedding the night before it because I wouldn’t go pick flowers with her that day. We’d already done a day trip for it a fortnight earlier.
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Turned up on my first holiday abroad with my partner when I told her I didn’t want her to come. I was 21, and I got dumped a week later.