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Mostly only post when feeling at my most unhinged. Queer, relationship anarchist, abolitionist. Cymro Cymraeg. He/him (ef/ei yng Gymraeg).
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this is a golden age for walking out of your lab with a USB key in your pocket getting on a plane and going to Luxembourg

So, I don’t care about this particular man, but I do want to point out that immigration officials pulled this woman aside after a trip to Puerto Rico, which is…not a foreign destination, which means they’re pulling and detaining legal immigrants in the regular degular airport. Be safe.

ICE agents are torturing a green card holder from New Hampshire, his mother says www.nhpr.org/nh-news/2025...

I wish I didn't do the strange and embarrassing things I do

They're giving the same test and we all know the answers

I've been really struggling recently with overwhelming insecurity about being "the useless one" in my relationship and idk how to overcome it. I feel totally incompetent and shit compared to my partner and its making me act in weird and sometimes mean ways towards them

I need to follow more trans men on here

Memes are fucking disgusting and won't exist under freeganism

This feels like a major inflection point. If ICE can apparently unlawfully arrest & disappear a permanent resident and it is not immediately met with strong opposition from the public, officials, and courts, there is no going back.

its kind of crazy to see people go back to saying da r word all the time like if you were doing it for the past 10 years or whatever i guess thats one thing but if u stopped then started again when u felt like it came back in vogue or something thats really bizarre behavior

I wish my brain wouldn't make such strong connections between things then refuse to let go of them. Like... X happens and has 2% in common with Y, something that happened ages ago, so X and Y are identical. The bad feelings I processed when Y happened and genuinely got over? Back now. X = Y

"british people can't drive" factoid actualy just statistical error. average british driver has 0 accidents per year. Dashcams Georg, who runs a content mill & uploads over 10,000 each day, is an outlier adn should not have been counted

Feeling very terrible bad and awful

Gaining weight is good, actually

My boyfriend is doing fertility treatment for egg retrieval and I promised him repeatedly that I'd help so I will, but I so desperately want to break up with him and he keeps having scans to see if the eggs are ready and they keep not being ready so the treatment is longer and I'm trapped

What a weekend of sold-out The People's Joker screenings! Today, though, you can see TPJ in Belfast, Brighton, Cardiff, Edinburgh, Epsom, Galway, Liverpool, London, Norwich, Sheffield and York🎉 Lots more screenings to come, but today IT’S THE DAY OF THE JOKER! matchboxcine.com/thepeoplesjoker

The fact that a trans woman is in a British newspaper calling JK Rowling a witch is making me squeal with laughter haha - British libel laws mean we can’t talk so openly here but since Vera’s American she can say what she likes

It sucks being in a deeply toxic relationship because when you eventually do leave him your friends are all like "yay good riddance" and you don't get to mourn it at all

Democrats should all start making the jerk off motion when asked about anything Trump-related, just to see how it gets described. “Controversial gesture that suggests self-pleasuring”

Saw The People's Joker last night and I...... I think you should watch it

Gen-Xers would rather eat a raw onion like an apple than go to therapy

"Healing is not linear," I tell myself as my emotional state deteriorates linearly forever

I wish I was good at anything lol

Once again having a crisis of confidence re my ability to do literally anything at all

I've been reading about how to talk less etc, but does anyone here have tips also? Have you successfully gone from speaking so much everyone is sick of you to holding normal conversations? I want to hear how!

Decided to enter a non yapping era of my life where I speak only when spoken to

Sorry guys it was my fault. I didnt understand the instructions & somehow accidentally voted for trump 5 million times

New tagline for BlueSky just dropped