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Writer, storyteller, publisher, advice guy, crankypants. Always looking for people to talk to and things to eat. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
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Read “What you can do, right now, for your trans and nonbinary friends, family, students and colleagues.“ by S. Bear Bergman on Medium: medium.com/@sbearbergma...

Oh yes, ban SSRIs and anxiety meds before semi-automatic weapons. Makes perfect sense; what could possibly go wrong?

Public comment is now open for passport gender marker changes. You can go here to go to each of the three proposed passport rules, and submit comment. My suggestion: be unique, argue for trans-inclusive policies, against the constitutionality of the changes, etc. www.reddit.com/r/Passports/...

I have been travelling with my children for five (5) days and every single one of my pockets now contains at least one piece of hard candy and at least one rock, shell, or seed pod.

New ep today about a book that is so timely to be discussing right the heck now. Our guest is Seth Anderson-Matz and we're talking about The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You by @sbearbergman.bsky.social. And Bear joins us for the conversation! thisqueerbook.com/nearest-exit

This part. I visualize white supremacy as a river, which like all rivers has a current. If I stop paddling against it, it will push me along - fast, slow, maybe over a cliff. I don’t mean to get sucked into a whirlpool but white supremacy does not care. We have to paddle, and we can’t stop.

Of all the things I have hated recently, I hate this one with a fresh and roaring hatred.

Crowdsourcing some email lines to replace “hope this finds you well” which does not feel possible at this juncture. I’ve been using “hope you’ve been able to resist the slough of despond, mostly,” but I need some new options. Whatcha got, BlueSky?

I saw this hat on a guy at LaGuardia airport and I laughed so hard I came to a complete stop, shook his hand, and kept going. www.rawcustomzapparel.com/product/i-mi...

📖 Special Topics in Being a Parent A Queer and Tender Guide to Things I've Learned about Parenting, Mostly the Hard Way by @sbearbergman.bsky.social & Saul Freedman-Lawson Bookshop Affiliate Link: bookshop.org/a/100590/978... Your local library: search.worldcat.org #queerbooks #lgbtqia #booksky

📖 Special Topics in Being a Human - A Queer and Tender Guide to Things I've Learned the Hard Way about Caring for People, Including Myself by @sbearbergman.bsky.social & Saul Freedman-Lawson Bookshop Affiliate Link: bookshop.org/a/100590/978... search.worldcat.org #queerbooks #lgbtqia #booksky

Imagine if @aoc @sanders.senate.gov , every dem, SIMULTANEOUSLY held Town Halls where they allowed grant and contract recipients to explain to the country what it is they do and why it's important Invite all media. Including RW podcasters. @spaces Flood the zone Call it a Day Of Transparency

I can tell that something I wrote has really gone viral when I hear from someone I knew in the 1980s about it.

Again and again I see Trump issue a new EO that seems slightly obscure and then everyday people who work in that field pop up to say "YEAH THIS FUCKS UP EVERYTHING FOR US." It's only a matter of time before Trump destroys your life/business, too. Stand up for everyone; we're all in this together.

I have to get this out: I have been a queer and trans activist and educator for 35 years and among all the other things I am feeling right now, I am also just SO ANNOYED we have to do this AGAIN.

I wish we still had patrons of the arts; I would definitely include your side person’s terrible poem and outline their name in gold in exchange for a spring patronage.

They make this two part spraypaint that waterproofs concrete and wood and such and I’ve always wanted to use it to stencil rain-themed poetry on the sidewalk so the poem only appears in the rain.

So annoying being this clumsy you guys. I dropped a whole brand new 10mL vial of testosterone this morning, and now I will have to get my doc to write me an emergency prescription for a fresh one to replace it ugh.

If Her Grace will briefly excuse me, fuck yeah.

Despite executive orders from Trump, the law is clear: Denying care to trans young people means that health care providers and hospitals are in violation of our anti-discrimination laws. Trans youth are entitled to the same care as their cis peers - it's the law.

I found this to be very good and very coherent advice on how to help trans and nonbinary folks! Please read, share, and get in there! (And thank you, @sbearbergman.bsky.social, for writing it!)

For all the cisgender people looking for an instruction manual on what to do next, here you go: medium.com/@sbearbergma... (From the inimitable @sbearbergman.bsky.social )

Essential reading -- and doing.

Read “What you can do, right now, for your trans and nonbinary friends, family, students and colleagues.“ by S. Bear Bergman on Medium: medium.com/@sbearbergma...

Dear infosec pals: any recs for which of the “keep your details private” services is good and makes sense and is useful enough without being total overkill?

I am writing “five things you can do right now to support your trans friends and family” if any editors would like a look.

I’m getting through on advancing some plans and my readings for HillmanTok U this morning. Recommended.

It is impossible to be even a minimally a decent human being who is happy with the news today.