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sduk.bsky.social
LVL 64. Disabled, pansexual, poly. LGBTQIA. Trans ally. Lefty RAF vet. Be kind - except to N*zis/RWNJ/MAGA. Pro-EU. Can be NSFW. OU student. Use Alt text! "I didn't mean to start this fire and neither did you." Writing and photos: randomblatherings.com
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This time last year I wrote a soft-focus, gentle post about a break-up. He did not deserve the kindness I showed him here. www.girlonthenet.com/blog/im-gonn...

submitted 4 hours ago • 4 comments

*Taps the sign*

submitted 5 hours ago • 0 comments

And you will have a synthetic answer to a question born of ignorance, instead of doing your reading and discovering that was the wrong question all along, not to mention the tools to understand the answer.

submitted 13 hours ago • 1 comment

If it helps swing the argument, I send out very pretty post!

submitted 14 hours ago • 0 comments

You can’t “try harder” your way out of disability. All the “wellness”, yoga and healthy food in the world won’t ‘cure’ you. It’s not a moral failing. It’s not the result of bad choices. It’s not something a person ‘chooses’ at all. Disability can and does happen to most of us.

submitted 1 day ago • 19 comments

Todays my day for resting and looking sexy as fuck.

submitted 16 hours ago • 9 comments

So, my new local coffee place had these flyers. Anyone fancy a trip to the seaside? May be extremely relevant to @coffeeandkink.bsky.social

submitted 2 days ago • 2 comments

Well I’m rather pleased with these!

submitted 2 days ago • 5 comments

It’s a bit late already but I wanted to print something special for Pride.

submitted 2 days ago • 1 comment

Stalker Jazz cunt is back. Please report.

submitted 2 days ago • 8 comments

OK, I lied, I have another #FediForumFriday post! If anyone can think of a way to get UK fediverse projects featured on Tom Scott's channel (he's an enormously popular YouTuber) please go fill in this form […]

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Word of the day is ‘fellow-feel’ (verb; 17th-century): to share in the suffering and distress of others.

submitted 3 days ago • 31 comments

He's a stalker, doesn't give her opportunity to consent, tries to buy her affection and gaslights her when he fucks up. You really don't want that type of man in your life. Get you one who knows how to make you feel like he does, but who knows that consent is sexy.

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It's #FediForumFriday- your reminder to check in with projects you're excited about, ask for or offer help, or just chat with the folks you met and refresh the joy and motivation you felt at #FediForum. I have a post explaining it here @blog […]

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Raging Bull

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I’m not saying this as a Sex Ed ‘consent is sexy’ buzzphrase. I’m saying it because it’s incredibly fucking hot: ask permission to kiss me. Please. #kissing #consent www.girlonthenet.com/blog/kissing...

submitted 5 days ago • 2 comments

More of this please

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There is something pleasingly dollhouse-miniature about this perfect copy of a metal Doxy Die Cast that fits neatly in the palm of your hand. Also... it FUCKS. NEW blog: I am obsessed with this new dinky Doxy Go. www.girlonthenet.com/blog/doxy-go... #SexToys #vibrators

submitted 5 days ago • 5 comments

Tiktok won't show this video to anybody for some reason, it 0 views it every attempt, so you can deal with it here bluesky Popular British shops and how they are actually pronounced.

submitted 6 days ago • 5 comments

Vale of Glamorgan Queers, Lost & Found Society, an amazing non profit community gaming space, are holding a free event this Saturday to celebrate Pride. I'll be hiding in their TTRPG room with my DnD group! Boosts appreciated cos they're amazing and deserve more […] [Original post on toot.wales]

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NEW blog: it’s not you, it’s me. How do you know if you’re ready to be #dating? (Or not, as the case may be) Today’s blog makes me look like a bellend, but hopefully illustrates a point. www.girlonthenet.com/blog/its-not... (Pretty art by @stuartcb.bsky.social ❤️)

submitted 8 days ago • 13 comments

The US deploys the military against it's own people, uses brain-dead women as incubators, snatches children from schools whilst Israel starves a population it is also bombing, and kidnaps Europeans. Starmer: posts about Britpop. Starmer fans: It's so *refreshing* to have adults in charge 🤩

submitted 6 days ago • 1 comment

It's Monday. Fuuuuuck.

submitted 7 days ago • 4 comments

In as far as domestic US news is reported at all in other countries (which is much, much less than most Americans imagine, particularly outside the Anglosphere ) this is absolutely right.

submitted 8 days ago • 2 comments

This is powerful writing. And kinda heartbreaking.

submitted 8 days ago • 0 comments