shadowobsessed.bsky.social
They/them AuDHD cutie 🦀 32 🐱 NorCal to Philly 💖 LIFE4 DDR Diamond I rank! 💎 ⬅️⬇️⬆️➡️ Rhythm gamer 🎵 Indie board game designer 🎲 ''Weird in every way possible''
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I'm really curious in hearing what works for you. I think my issue is partly psychological - my mom told me a lot of food was too "fancy" for us, so I often feel guilt in buying nicer food that may cost more even if it's better for me. Lots of layers, though. I'm so happy to hear you've found a way!
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Noooooo D:
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didn't even know a med like that was even possible. I'm so glad that you found it.
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thank you to Magnet for the heads up.
...I might need to get into Sonic: The Gathering
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Thank you for all of your advice!!! I need to jump back on the food prep train. A lot of things sound hard to start, but then I realize how much easier they make my life while I'm in it.
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That all sounds great, thank you!!
I've never actually used curry paste 😅 is it complicated to prepare?
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the closest I've come was actually like 3 months ago, when I started making batches of rice daily! It became a lot easier to prepare a protein or veggies when I already had that part done. A lot less daunting. Dunno why I stopped ._.
do you have any fave veggies to go with rice/ways to prepare them?
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**meant to write "disordered eating."
some sites seem to think it's an ED, but I just literally forget food and the concept of eating well. It is NOT a thought in my head.
and then I scramble to eat whatever's closest when I'm starving. And emotional eat/binge at night. I wanna be healthy 🥲
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this sounds..... incredibly helpful
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I'm a late bloomer in everything, and that includes realizing how I'm feeling. My body feels like shit when I live off of chips and junk food. I want to feel and live my best, and that will also give me more stamina for DDR!
I need to do these things while also remaining kind & forgiving to myself.
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My family never gathered around for meals together (only on holidays). I don't know what it's like to do regular grocery shopping and put together meals on a regular basis. I start to feel like an Actual Adult when I've done food prep a couple days in a row. Need to figure out how to keep it up.
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I subsisted on a lot of scraps and snacks growing up, with an inconsistent meal schedule. Disorganized eating is what I always default to. I often forget that I can eat/that I deserve real & good food unless my partner puts some in front of me. I want to work hard to shift this.
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I'd never heard of this little chef or his show before, but this definitely got the waterworks going. What the hell, Nick 😭😭😭
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Dude, I would too!
He mentioned having to either quit or severely cut back on drinking, though, so maybe something like a zero-proof beer or a mocktail would be best 😅
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Jesus fuck, that is TERRIBLE
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@imamagnet.bsky.social pointed out that the weather had been better in Vegas when we left 😭
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Forgot to mention, we also talked about how much ICE suuuuucks! He was a cool guy for sure, hahaha
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I hope you can find a good group! 💝 you deserve it
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-- The flight time flew by before I knew it. We were laughing and also sharing sobering truths, like how he was bummed to not get a job at the Bronx zoo, but the person who got it instead was mauled by a tiger 6 weeks later. Yikes!!!
I'm glad I opened up. People can be cool.
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I shared that I hope leaning on local community can get us through whatever is coming next.
I will admit, I'm not usually the first person to want to talk to strangers. But I stepped out of my comfort zone a bit, and met a new person who shares quite a lot of the same views as me. I was surprised.-
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-- He shared how his brother owns the patents for car back-up cameras, and a chip in the Mars rover. And we talked politics, and loss of hope. He said he noticed a pattern, that we enter a new big war every 80 years or so -- about every four generations. He said he doesn't know how we'll get out. --
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-- brisket, joining the Peace Corps and living in the Amazon, and how to make a good Jamaican Jerk sauce. He regaled me with tales of near-death experiences, and various natural disasters he's found himself in the middle of. We talked about our experiences loving someone with cancer. --
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A great plan!!
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Oh gosh, that's how I just felt getting ready for mine 😭😭 Hoping you can finally breathe and rest once you're on your way, and enjoy your trip to the max!!! 💝
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Omg it's you!!!! I've missed you! 🥺🥰 But am very glad you took time off to rest!
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🎵 Say my name, say my name... 🎶
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it was like 3 bucks or something, and is a complete lifesaver!! Comes in 3 colors. If there's a Daiso near you, it's nice to have!
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14 #25 is Bitter Chocolate Striker!
Honorable mention to my flag on Kill The Night 😭
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#deviddr
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😍🥰🥳😭💝 are currently my 5 most recent, and I use them very often!!
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YOOOOOO way to go!!!!!! 🥳🥳🥳
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That's so exciting!! I hope you have a blast there ^^ it was my second time visiting, glad to support a local indie arcade!
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I forgot to get a picture of the other synth setup, but here are some random gadgets lol