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he/him. transsexual. 36. philologist (of sanskrit) and librarian (of anything) by training. learning mandarin and thai. ko-fi.com/sstemery — all proceeds go to helping me leave the US profile picrew by @veluv_art
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there is no earthly way of finding out precisely what the whale really looks like

Has this been done before

weird to realize a specific grief has lasted half my life.

turns out medication changes are rough, who knew

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who’s going to tell fanfic authors that black slacks and black dress shoes and a tucked-in button down in really any color is a tragic look they should not inflict on their blorbos? i do not care how hot your dude is supposed to be, he’s not hot dressed like that.

i’m not ever NOT going to be the guy talking about trans youth suicide, and i think this article gives some pretty good reasons why.

you wake up in the morning and, as you become aware of the feeling of your body, it is there. you lie in bed at night and it's the last thing you feel before sleep. in those moments there are no family, no friends, no community, only you and the way your body feels

Because no man can ever feel his own identity aright except his eyes be closed

'normalize non transitioning trans people' buddy they're passing laws to ban transition. how much more normalized do you need it

y’all know that “the real transition is not transitioning” is TERF rhetoric right

Look I don't think a world where trans kids are loved and affirmed and Palestinian kids get all the food they can eat and Black kids get the best education in the world and immigrant kids can be anything they want to be is all that big of an ask tbh

i’m not going to put up my venmo in response to the Supreme Court ruling, because i am not in imminent danger of losing care, and i am not a youth. please consider supporting young people and their families who are trying to get access to transition care. they are in danger now.

they would rather have dead kids than alive kids they can't control

i say this a lot, i feel like, but trans kids are watching and listening to the national conversation and it’s making some of them suicidal. it’s also making some of them dead. i don’t have a solution here. just the observation that every new article by a transphobe may well have a body count.

way less "you're valid without it" and way more "you deserve access to the care you need" is what people need in this moment so if you're doing that first thing uh. kindly shut da fuck up

every june i am reminded my decisions around presentation (boring, boring, and also no more septum ring) and other people’s inability to tell who’s gay without megaphone use will cast me into the “ally” category. big i-was-there-when-it-was-written energy. also how can you NOT read me as gay. smh.

my favorite trope has to be absolute balls-to-the-wall are-we-even-separate-people codependence, bonus if one or both parties are violently protective. in this essay i will explain edizzy

yes they are. they are christians and you have to deal with that

Also: I see a lot of folks using Gandhi's nonviolent opposition as some kind of gotcha over how activism and resistance should work. I can tell they have never read anything the man wrote and are reciting the opinion they were taught from a foggy, half-remembered grammar school lecture.

depressive spell upgraded by my therapist into a depressive episode. please send…delicious food? my priorities are out of whack but that’s top among them.

BREAKING: A federal judge ruled all transgender and intersex people can obtain passports that align with their gender identity while the case against President Trump's executive order proceeds. While this is good news, we will continue fighting until this executive order is blocked permanently.

“i asked chat gpt” “i asked grok” Jeeves would kill you where you stand

This. I didn't have to be particularly smart or insightful to get my PhD. But I did have to be thorough, and do just insane amounts of reading. To the extent I had any insights, they came from an understanding of that foundation at a level you don't get from review articles, much less a summary.

Cop, rolling up on Michael Myers standing motionless on the front lawn holding a large butcher knife, but he has a toy police badge pinned to his shirt: Ok dispatch, no trouble here, this guy's cool

Oh! the metempsychosis! Oh! Pythagoras, that in bright Greece, two thousand years ago, did die, so good, so wise, so mild

I object on aesthetic and maybe quasi-moral grounds to language like “devout” and “deeply religious” in this context. If his fanaticism adhered to a different faith, he’d get “fanatic,” “extremist,” “zealot” etc. Perverting the Cross to commit murder exempts you from “devout”

Happy Father's Day to Ed's jilted wife father Izzy Hands

"omg sabrina carpenter is the first straight woman into puppy play" were you all born yesterday or something

You: spends two minutes plugging prompts into AI & waits an hour for it to come up with answers you aren't capable of verifying. Me: opens a book and spends hours in spiritual communion with a stranger, who may be long dead, using an alchemy of symbolism, memory, & imagination. We are not the same

kinda depressing to see people brag about AI “research” when there are in fact human people thoroughly trained to do research or indeed help others do theirs. it’s me, i am that.

save me 人渣反派自救系统 fic 人渣反派自救系统 fic save me

"i asked grok" "i asked chagpt" yeah well I asked a rare books librarian and they found things I didn’t even know I was looking for, while answering questions about provenance

Have you heard?

got fired (sorry, “was released”) from a seasonal job :(

type of financial state where i am telling myself “you don’t really need a phone plan, it’s fine if you can do wi-fi calling” — but do i have a phone number or anything without a phone plan? i do not know. maybe i’ll just stop having a phone. and also go live in a cave.

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