skylar.system.gay
y'all/they/we - plural (system.gay)
✨ Zari (they/it)
🖤 Ethan (he/him)
💖 Melanie (she/her)
technology / design / engineering nerd
transsexual, nonbinary, nullo 🏳️⚧️
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Combined with the Skrmetti decision it should be blindingly clear to everyone that the US government is pursuing an eliminationist policy against trans people.
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✨ oooh so glad that’s the case!! wonder if that’s changed? when we emailed them back in like ~2018 when we changed our name they said they couldn’t!
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✨ we gave up our entire steam library because they don’t let you change usernames, it… was not a fun time.
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That said I fucking love this game.
And as always thank you Coffee Stain for adding misophonia mode as an accessibility feature for all players when I emailed you to tell you about how the eating sounds in your game triggered my miso.
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✨ yeah, nothing is a guarantee ofc it's possible they make up funding shortfalls elsewhere but it definitely is not good times!!
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✨ This was linked in the article and has a table, there’s also reference of an interactive map but we couldn’t find it: www.markey.senate.gov/imo/media/do...
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✨ we bet the new iPadOS will help, the new windowing and menu bar make a huge difference!! that instability is hard, y'all are almost there though!! 🫂
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✨we have no self-control, it's only been *bad bad* a few times over the years 🤭 not having a personal machine sounds awful!!! omg
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✨ we *finally* found a good team of providers and while we’re so happy for the progress and clarity we’ve found, we’re also really mad at all the times we sought care and were let down when things were less severe.
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✨ don’t really know why he started being so vulnerable on main dude knows he can journal right? i don’t know that there was a point really hm
uh, don’t have children if you’re not ready to care for a disabled one !
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✨ i mean plenty of it was obviously abusive and sadistic? but the mental effects, the attachment trauma, that’s what feels more impactful.
we remember being such an outgoing, happy, empathetic kid — that was beaten out of us until we were quiet and easy to manage. not allowed to have needs.
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🖤 we wish we could explain to our family what they did, why it hurt so much. but they’re genuinely like, too stupid to process it.
how the fuck we came from that family is genuinely very confusing at times. public education, folks, it’s good!
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✨ we love your pizza so much 🤤
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✨ the ones we always stop at in TN all have like 18-24 Tesla stalls and 4-8 Mercedes-branded CCS stalls! They're honestly great stops for charging - plenty of room to walk the dog, grab a snack, good bathrooms.
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🖤 we’d described this feeling of kinship to the transmasc experience in therapy for like, a year before realizing we’re plural and it makes *so much* more sense now.
super validating to see other people discuss it 😅
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✨ they’re actually really insistent they didn’t!
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✨ we’ve been using Fastmail for ages and love it! Their web UI and apps are fine, but we mostly use Apple Mail anyway.
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✨ it was not an entirely pleasant time for us, unfortunately. but it was fine with our other two surgeries (orchi & ffs) 😅
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✨gender nullification is... not not this? lol
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call screen and hold assist are both things we missed dearly from our pixel, really excited to use them again ☺️
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✨ lol we just did literally this because it turns out none of us actually really like skylar all that much but it’s a decent name for the lot of us
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“But you’re so social”
Thank you it’s a feature of the autism.
“I really like your personality”
Thanks, it’s yours.
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having to perpetually defend both people doing polyamory poorly and people being an enormous dork about it all because people can't just communicate openly
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*yoink* and that's in our brain now thanks 😂
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SO cool 😍
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it couldn't be more fake!