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Online Big Sis | Sunday Times Bestselling Author | ‘I Wish I Knew This Earlier’ & ‘Take Note’ | [email protected] | [email protected]
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I love my sister 🥹

Episode 6 of #ToniToldMe is live! Listen to ‘Fine Girls Do Finance’ - audioalways.lnk.to/tonitoldmeTT

God is always RIGHT ON TIME for me. When I worry that I don’t have a solution, a solution will eventually be provided - right on time!!! 😭 🙏🏾

the video @t0nit0ne.bsky.social posted on IG for Valentine’s Day is soooo cute. fall in love with your friend, not someone who will be squeezing face every time

Defence mechanisms might feel like they work but they can often do more harm than good…

Random but, one celebrity who is even more gorgeous in real life is Ciara. She’s beautiful in pics and videos but in real life??? Her beauty is something else!

You asked for ‘Toni Told Me’ YouTube videos and we’ve delivered! The first video will be premiering at 5pm UK time (11am EST). youtu.be/KTrh5xjsdU0

No expectations = low disappointment.

Being a ‘Jack of all trades’ can feel overwhelming but who says you have to focus on becoming a master of one thing? Multi-skilled individuals who have the courage to explore their talents are unstoppable! Embrace your versatility. Being interested in many things isn’t a weakness. It’s a strength.

lmao no, TikTok users are not moving to Bluesky. They would literally rather learn Mandarin than learn how to read a feed of text posts. This is a millennial retirement home.

It’s about time! ‘Toni Told Me’ is my new podcast, bringing you your weekly dose of big sister advice. Sometimes you’ll get me on my own, and other times you’ll get me with special guests! Launching Tuesday 14th January 😃😆 I can’t wait!!! #tonitoldme

let me repost this instead of copy and pasting bar for bar 🙊 good to see you here Toni !!

Ever met someone who seems deeply emotional and completely detached at the same time? They feel things intensely and have so much love to give but it’s as if they’ve locked it away. Their perspective on the world reveals a depth of emotion but the way they guard their heart makes them appear numb…

Just finished ‘Dark Matter’. I really enjoyed it despite the holes in the plot. For example, there were so many copies of Jason 1 but what about the copies of Jason 2??? Very confusing.

You don’t have to like me, because Jesus loves me 🙏🏾

Who’s seen ‘Missing You’ on Netflix? The acting was good but boy oh boy that storyline! Everything was going on 😅

British Airways’ voluntary but inevitable detonation of its frequent flyer scheme today means that only the most tragically locked-in passengers need bother prioritising flying BA. As I’ve said before, airlines don’t really care for your loyalty and you shouldn’t either. Just fly whoever you like.

The wildest part of BA’s loyalty scheme change is that many ppl stuck with them despite better options, just for the Executive Club. Now, why not fly Qatar, Air France, Singapore, Virgin, or Emirates? For me, BA will no longer be my first choice unless their tickets get significantly cheaper...

I don’t know who needs this but 2025 is a year of no comparisons. No beating yourself up over things you don’t have yet. Let this year be one of faith. Especially in your own journey. Certain things are meant for YOU and nobody else. Let 2025 be a year of alignment and readiness for YOUR blessings.

2024 was a YEAR!

True statement that often makes me feel terribly sad ashamed of the world we live in. 😪🙏

Love it when I see a woman who has been through the trenches, get a happy fresh start. You deserve it boo ♥️

I can’t take all this Black beauty 😍

Down with *UnitedWealthCare* Up with Universal Health Care. 💙

After some Costco shareholders asked the company to end its DEI policies, this was their response: “Our board has considered this proposal and believes that our commitment to an enterprise rooted in respect and inclusion is appropriate and necessary." This explains why Costco is an industry leader!

I cried when I watched ‘The Six Triple Eight’ on Netflix… I love that their story is global now, but it hurt me to think about how so many of those women have passed away, and didn’t get their credit or flowers when they were alive. A tale as old as time 😔

I love seeing couples who are actual friends to each other. Not a relationship based solely on duty / societal expectations, but one based on mutual understanding, laughter, shared experiences, shared interests etc. I genuinely think these are the happiest relationships. Seems like ppl agree too…

The way some of you are traumatising your kids with that Elf on the Shelf… That creepy looking elf will never enter my house! 🤣

One thing about my Dad… He loves him some Korean tv! 🤣🤣🤣 The last five shows he has completed have all been Korean. I gotta take him to Seoul one day.

Cheating doesn’t ’just happen’; it’s a series of deliberate decisions. Whether it’s walking or driving somewhere, texting, meeting, opening a door… At each step there’s an opportunity to choose differently. So never believe someone who says “it just happened”. Cheating is a choice, not an accident.

I used to think marriage was purely about love, but many of us are capable of loving people who aren’t necessarily great longterm partners for us. You have to consider a person’s values, work ethic, money habits, crisis management style, discipline level, and so much more. Love alone isn’t enough.

Everything I said I wanted was available to me. God just needed to see that my belief in him, and myself, was stronger than the disbelief people threw at me.

Feels like everyone is on a ski trip right now.

Transparency is important in all relationships, but particularly in long distance relationships!

I had someone recommend that I restart my X account, which had ~100k followers, to “gain even more reach.” Nope. I deleted the account altogether, and am not going back. The site is unsafe, doesn’t respect its community, and doesn’t meet any reasonable professional standards. Staying here.

Luigi Mangione reportedly debated using a bomb to kill UnitedHealthcare’s CEO but ultimately decided to shoot him to spare the lives of nearby innocent people.

This also reminds me of people who critique parents for not beating their kids ("I got beat and I'm fine!") - when people see others make a different choice that they know they would have preferred and benefitted from had they had the power to choose or the belief that they could, they lash out.

I’ll never forget my father‘s 2nd wife repeatedly shading me because I was dating, spoiled, & not settling. I then realized she was barefoot and pregnant at 21 & was salty that I was having the 20s she wanted based on her rambles. She settled. I’m married now and more spoiled than before. I win.

Desiring companionship is fine, but some women desperate for a partner criticise other women with high standards. Their willingness to settle fuels the belief that others should accept the bare minimum too… They believe their options are limited and project their own limiting beliefs onto others.

Some women label their man’s ex as “crazy” to avoid facing his toxic behavior. But is she really crazy, or is he emotionally abusive? Sadly, the truth often hits when they become his next victim.

Walk in the spirit of the person you wish to become and the things you pray to possess. If you say you want something for your life but your actions contradict your desires; you’re just pushing blessings away. Express gratitude through your behaviour for the things you don’t yet have, but pray for.

Prayer brings me so much comfort, peace and connection. Gratitude reminds me of my blessings, opening up about challenges reminds me that I should never feel alone, and asking for help strengthens my faith. Prayer reframes my perspective and truly gives me strength in my weakest moments.