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My SA survivor tattoo is complete. The back piece is going to be larger with more surrounding the circular center part, but this was the most important part for me. May the words of this tattoo come true for all my fellow survivors. šŸ«‚šŸ–¤

Guess who finished their back tattoo while still battling a fibro flare-up? This guy. And guess who learned that tattoo pain confuses my fibro and turns the intensity down? Granted I may be just in an endorphin high, but the result is the same - feeling much better right now. Pics to come!

At some point the opposition needs to say what is happening here: Donald Trump is a tyrant in the full sense of the term, an American fascist dictator who believes the law flows directly from his command. And he is also a deeply unwell, unfit, and criminal man with nonsensical whims

My fibro has been awful for a week or so now, to the point I've missed work due to being unable to stand upright or bend without feeling I'm going to puke. However my work just posted for an open position that would allow me to work from home! I've already applied. Please cross all the fingers šŸ¤ž

Fibro effecting my hip joints is a new one - lower back is a regular flare up point but never felt it when moving my legs. Got to work and was curled up in my car, trying to find the strength to head upstairs. They let me go home so at least I got time to "rest" just bent in half all day

Man, I think I've underestimated the toll not having weekends would take on me... It doesn't matter how much sleep I get right now, I always feel exhausted and my mind is fuzzy and hard to think in the mornings. I'm sure still having the last remains of lung crud doesn't help either. šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø

Putting together a little mini ceremony so Brika Brak can adopt people into his goblin family, making them honorary goblins. He already let's people sign away their deadnames to the Fae, but this will cast a wider net. Found family for all my fellow weirdos šŸ–¤āœØļø

Brika Brak chilling with our troll of the stone bridge out at Fairhaven (Arizona Renaissance Festival) Photos by the lovely Willie Stark

Another great show at TQA! Have some backstage photos!

This is my Medusa tattoo. And I do hope your abuser dies šŸ–¤āœØļø

It begins... Line work for the center happening today after we nail down size and placement! Edited version of Astarion's back reads "I hope your abuser dies" in English and Infernal

Back at TQA next week! And with some of my favorite people!!!

I'll be doing something spicier than usual this Saturday night! If you're in the area and looking for this type of party, come check it out! I'll be slaying both literally and figuratively!

Happy Valentine's Day! For those who play on the rougher side of things, here's a handy graphic for your impact play. Also remember that rope IS dangerous and improper ties and pressure can lead to permanent nerve damage, so if you're trying it for the first time keep it simple and have scissors!

Forgot to mention - got felt up by a guy last Saturday while performing as my goblin at our local renfaire. He had put his arm over my shoulders and I THOUGHT just patted my chest, which - top surgery, whatever. Later I found a few dollars in my shirt and realized what happened.

Once again, Father Frightly will be performing a drag number with big Dom/killer vibes. Once again, I remind everyone that I'm just a thick-bottomed bratty sub that happens to be decent at acting. And owns various impact toys.

Read it slowly and understand it. šŸ˜³šŸ„ŗ Repost šŸ‘‡šŸ¾ šŸ‘‡šŸ¾

Ah, the true American experience - taking a Lyft to the ER.

Playing the "at what point is my breathing bad enough that I should go to the hospital" game tonight... Got that wet, popping wheeze going on. Can't sleep, can't even sit back or I can't breathe.

I'm watching a video about AI girlfriends and how manosphere types abuse them... And suddenly I remember one of the subplot of Chobits where people left real partners for their non-AI (as in true AI, definitely like this AI) robot companions because they didn't disagree or have needs of their own.

Half my rp's I've done since 2004 are this or this-adjacent. Don't make me get into my history in Second Life modern day paranormal rp sims. Fuck, even happened in Midian City... I swear I should just write some out as original fics. Brom's dead, he won't mind.

Me: "ugh, I'm so sick today, but I always feel guilty calling out of work... but my lungs aren't working so I really can't chase kiddos..." My car: "I gotchu, fam"

I updated my driver's license with my legal name and gender marker back in November. I waited a month, never received the card (just the printout from the DMV) and went back in to report it never arriving. So I put in for them to reissue it. It's been another month. Guess what hasn't arrived?

No Brika Brak today (Sunday 2/9) - my lungs are filled with green goo. Which you think would just add to the goblin vibes, but everytime I breathe in to talk, I instead cough up said green goo. I am choosing to believe this is the last step of me finally getting better. šŸ¤ž

Am I working 7 days a week during faire season? Yup? Are my nights still free for drag? YUP!!! Located in Phoenix, AZ - won't be free for travel till April, and then only with some travel comp, but still open for it!

I'm torn between wanting to see my boy Stu Macher in a Scream movie again and knowing this is a stunt to distract from the film losing it's two main stats because they stood up for Palestine. Piracy it is. šŸ“ā€ā˜ ļø

Tattoo postponed to the 18th. Brain still wants to be upsetty about it, which is dumb (I guess it is my SA survivor tattoo but still) so I'm fighting it off with some self care tonight. Need to see about scheduling a psych appointment now that I have full benefits again.

Ugh, body is sore after ihram first weekend back working at AZRF. AND my ear and sinus infection came back again. AND my tattoo appointment was pushed back (my artist is sick too). Hoping the doctor visit today will be helpful.

This coat was a nightmare to make but I think it looks pretty awesome on Brika Brak. Only wore it part of the day since it got up to 80 degrees today - but it will continue to be more morning wear for this season at Arizona Renaissance Festival.

On my way to opening day at the Arizona Renaissance Festival! If you're there for the gate opening at 10, look for Brika Brak STANDING UP WITH THE QUEEN!!!! šŸ–¤āœØļø

This was a reply on a reposted cosplay tiktok of my Shigaraki. It used an audio about punching n@zĀ”s and this guy decided to be offended - you'll never guess why (yes you will, but it's still a hilarious read)

TODAY WAS SUCH A DAY FOR BRIKA BRAK! My little goblin character seems to be moving up in the world - definitely here at Arizona Renaissance Festival, but also possibly at Labyrinth of Jareth šŸ¤žšŸ¤žšŸ¤ž I'm just so excited to get to bring my goblin energy to more people in new and exciting ways šŸ–¤āœØļø