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A premarital agreement should be a conversation, not a confrontation. Consider a collaborative premarital negotiation. If there will be no prenup, this article from @forbes.com has some suggestions to preserve separate property. www.forbes.com/sites/martin...

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"Time spent outside of the home has rebounded since the pandemic, but only slightly...2023 out-of-home activities and travel were still far below 2019 levels." We are becoming a nation of homebodies.

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"In essence, conflict isn’t necessarily about the issue—it’s about the emotion behind it. When you shift from blame to understanding, you break the cycle of repeated fights and find real solutions." www.forbes.com/sites/traver...

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"Gray divorce can be a major transition, but there are steps you can take to help maintain your health and well-being if you decide to split from your partner later in life." www.verywellmind.com/gray-divorce...

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RNA xkcd.com/3056

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If you ever wanted to live in a work of art, here is your chance. Tulsa's Westhope is back on the market. www.mansionglobal.com/articles/fra...

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Some people cheat despite loving their partner. They may deeply value their relationship and still find themselves drawn to infidelity...But why does this happen? May require a subscription @Forbes.com www.forbes.com/sites/traver...

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Signs that a high-conflict custody case is actually litigation abuse. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invi...

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"Conservative influencer Ashley St. Clair, the mother of Musk’s 13th child, has filed two petitions against Elon Musk in a Manhattan court. The first...seeks sole legal custody of their son. The second seeks to legally establish Musk as the father." from @taylorlorenz.bsky.social

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“A really early sign [of a relationship at risk] is when one or both people are avoiding conflict and working on resolving anything...A problem doesn’t just go away when you ignore it...That’s why conflict is so important." parade.com/living/what-...

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As with all financial decisions, the goal is to benefit your bottom line. www.fool.com/retirement/2...

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www.uaemoments.com/amp/uae-anno...

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Happy Valentines Day

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"You don't need anyone else's permission to be yourself." Transgender rights are human rights.

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And it begins. FBI class action lawsuit against the retaliatory purge. First Amendment Violation of Due Process Rights to Privacy www.justsecurity.org/wp-content/u...

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A must-read from Tim Snyder. "Unless you cast your ballot so that South African oligarchs could steal your data, your money, your country, and your future, make it known to your elected officials that you wanted something else. And get ready to protest with people with whom you otherwise disagree."

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It's hard to view what's happened the past week in Washington (FBI purge, IG firings, impoundment of authorized funds, seizure of sensitive databases, intimidation of federal workers, expanding ICE raids to schools and churches, etc.) as anything other than an assault on the rule of law.

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Do not obey in advance.

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Is asking parent for their "papers" when they enroll their children legal? How about first asking for an opinion from @oklahomaoag.bsky.social so you don't end up on the losing end of yet another lawsuit? This just virtue signaling to MAGA voters

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The conservative effort to restrict no-fault divorce begs a deeper question: What is the purpose of marriage? Is it for love, or is it a social transaction? theconversation.com/why-are-amer...

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Speaking of healthcare. Let's make @bsky.app the platform that fights misinformation. Some great follows are @drsusanoliver.bsky.social @jsm2334.bsky.social @therealtruther.bsky.social Let's get them more followers and engagement than other platforms and let health science accounts find a home

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"It’s essential to reinforce the distinction between being a partner and a parent, so both individuals can grow together in a healthy, supportive relationship." www.forbes.com/sites/traver...

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Friday feels

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Join me Saturday 1/18/25 at the People's March in Tulsa.https://map.peoplesmarch.com/events/people-s-march-tulsa-oklahoma

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Here is a link to the full DOJ report on the Tulsa Race Massacre of 1921. www.justice.gov/crt/media/13...

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The source of a viral all-purpose meme.

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Report from @epi.org & hilwething.bsky.social analyzes how vouchers affect the cost to public schools of maintaining services with fewer students. Vouchers cause more harm to common education than just redirecting public funds to pay tuition for kids who are already enrolled in private school)

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A separation registry - something to consider for yourself or a friend going through a dramatic life transition.

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All I want for Christmas is a Bleusky edit button.

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Most relationships become Irretrievably broken due to intimacy issues, boundary issues, or parenting differences. Here's some social science on the subject. www.forbes.com/sites/traver...

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Attorney restrains former client outside a Mississippi courthouse after former client's husband was shot dead following a divorce hearing. www.sunherald.com/news/local/c...

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Celebrity divorce update - therapist ex-wife of Ethan Slater (Ariana Grande's Wicked co-star and current squeeze) opens up about being a private person involved in a public breakup | Metro News metro.co.uk/2024/12/20/e...

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Some Oklahoma parents turn kids over to the state after struggling to get mental health care for them www.readfrontier.org/stories/some...

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A divorce ceremony can be festive, somber, or something in between. You can do it solo or with a group. You can share the event with your ex, or exclude them and their ilk as you see fit Divorce is a milestone event in one's life worthy of ritual acknowledgement. scoop.upworthy.com/man-gets-div...

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Oklahoma's public schools chief demonstrates his MAGA loyalty with a proposed rule targeting immigrant children in schools. He wants to run for Governor in 2026. www.huffpost.com/entry/oklaho...

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"[T]the divorce might be easier for the parents if they’re doing it after the kids have left the nest, and it might actually be harder on the kids.” www.today.com/today/amp/rc...

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Billionaires with different motivations but united in purpose-to redirect public school funds (your tax dollars) into private hands. Better hope your kid makes the cut. "[V]ouchers fit into the way they think the world ought to work and, being billionaires, they’re used to getting what they want."

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Christian Nationalists oppose universal public education because it is multi-cultural and secular, as it should be. You want religious instruction for children? You are welcome to get it from your church or teach it at home.

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It's a major award.

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