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they/he · self compassion/executive functioning coach · AuDHD & disabled I teach people about compassion, discernment, & relational skills free resources AND ways to support me: bloomwithvin.com/links
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Me: *signalling and moving from the bike lane into the forward-only lane at an intersection where the bike lane has ended and there's copious signage that bikes can claim the entire lane* Bus driver who was def far enough behind & had time to react: honk HOOOOONK! Honk honk honk honk!!!! H O N K!!

Latest project! #art

[the utter cacophony of gently setting a hollow-bodied kalimba on the table] #MusicSky

A study in Nature Human Behaviour examines how information is shared by autistic and non-autistic people and finds that both perform comparably well. Rapport is higher with others of the same neurotype and when diagnosis is disclosed. 🧪

I'm seeing this immediately upon taking my coat off from my own rainy walk!

Not all who stand with you through your triumphs will be there for you through your defeats. A true warrior's friendship is not contingent on your ability to win, or on what you can do for them, but on the quality of your character. Strive to be worthy of such friendship.

everything's real hard all the time but at least I can rewatch Sahara (2005) as often as I want #FilmSky #Movies #ActionMovies

Would I still be recognizable if I replaced my PFP with a toon version? Cuz I'm real proud of this

I'm compiling some of my coloring pages into a lil coloring book!

updated my doodlydoo to my itch doodlydoo so y'all know where to get my ziiiiiines #zines

two scoops please 🐸

I'm like REALLY disappointed by Love Death + Robots v4 so far. Of the first 5 episodes the only two I've actually enjoyed were Spider Rose & 400 Boys. I DNFed The Other Large Thing bc like we get it you hate fat people. Is it 2005???

idk I feel like you can make the case that you shouldn't be mean about someone's cancer dx without saying it's because he was a Very Good President Who Did Nothing Wrong

I say this as a morning person. Fellow morning people: shut UP in the morning. It is 5AM. My family is sleeping. Why can I hear that you're having a conversation across a creek inside my house?? Not an argument. Not crying for help. Just talking. Use your 5AM voices please.

My cat Peanut helped me make yogurt today by making sure it stayed nice and warm through the ferment. #CatSky #Cooking #FermentedFoods

I've been with my Bulgarian husband over nine years & have never bonded so much with my FIL before I started making yogurt last month. He gave me some of his homemade yogurt to start it. He told me "not bad for first try" at my first batch–genuinely one of the nicest things he's ever said to me.

How often do you think about the fact that Brian Jacques pronounces it "Jakes" and how annoyed does it make you #BookSky

is it that the lightning bugs hug him ten at a time, or does each individual lightning bug give him one thousand hugs?

What it's like at my house 🖖🏻

If you’re lost, you can look, and you will find May… time after time.

I'm an American who's super grateful that the European (🇧🇬) I'm married to has a deep love of American food. & don't get me wrong I LOVE Bulgarian food, too. I have a batch of homemade 🇧🇬 yogurt in my fridge that I started from his dad's batch. & tbh the best is when I make fusion

my husband told me about the dry wedding discourse and I mean this very genuinely: if the thought of getting through one event sober is unbearable it's super worth looking at -your relationship to alc -if you like your friends/family -whether you're afraid to authentically have fun

feels like a good time to urge people to support local farmers. The solutions to our current situation won't come only from buying the right things, but it'll help your family and those farmers in the meantime. Seriously I save money on groceries w/ my farm share. At least check it out.

Idea: make stuff, support local artists, & thrift this holiday season and in general Additional idea: inventory how many decorations you already own A third idea: find value not in the biggest pile of stuff you can put under a tree but the meaning behind a couple well thought out items

to all my fellow depressed babes: have we at the very least changed into clean underwear and pj's/lounge clothes today & had something hydrating to drink? (ya know let's throw in a med check too)

to those hating on South of Midnight for Totally Technical ReasonsTM and definitely no other reasons: do you have a hardware issue or a skill issue

"If we really want the best talent in science, then let’s foster environments across the scientific enterprise that invite neurodiversity and recognize the strengths of neurological differences," writes @holdenthorp.bsky.social in a 2024 #ScienceEditorial. scim.ag/3GcwC7z

Idk if this is just that I have a Balkan husband but Are we using the sprinkle side of the paprika jar at all 👀

guess which two are farm fresh

I'm a mostly-housebound gig worker with MECFS. I take meds that help me accomplish like 1/5 of what abled people can do in a day and only crash kinda hard after. Yes, "we all get tired" but I promise you, not like this

I'm trying in general to make fewer purchases I don't need. AND. I can't just see a toy of my favorite monster truck and not buy it.

Rebellions are built on hope.