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wren-d.bsky.social
27 he/him trans, chronically ill/disabled mf with an occasional pngtuber stream on twitch??? i lov oaky woof
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thank yoooou!
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i haven't been able to do something as simple as take myself to the shops or go for a walk for years without someone to help me and because of that i've just not been able to go out and do things anywhere near as much as i've wanted. i can't wait to live with some folks who will actually help.
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i've sold some instruments and things of mine and im planning on selling more and fundraising for the next couple of months, getting my stuff packed is hard with pain and fatigue but ive been making slow progress. im keen to be out of here and somewhere that feels safe with some actual support!
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it's been legit tripping me out to be able to bend and walk without pain on one side. gonna be super weird to have none on both sides. thing about being in pain so long is it just becomes a part of the background noise so it's weird to be without it suddenly. not to complain lmao! it's great. c:
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you're correct
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i've got a place to stay two weeks from now for two months so that's nice at least, just trying to move and sell/chuck all the extra stuff i don't need.
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@oakydeer.bsky.social 👀👀
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oho i can't remember if ive seen that one yet ill have to give it a look!
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we watched baron omatsuri and film red/gold cause they're my faves ehehe
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c: you're welcome
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i've been checked for it but got a negative result also went gluten free for a year just to see if it impacted anything and no luck unfortunately! but thank you!
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oh yeah so, if anyone wants to help me start my moving fund i have a kofi set up here ko-fi.com/wren_d
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i have POTS and chronic fatigue as well as type one diabetes and gastroparesis caused by diabetic autonomic neuropathy. looking after myself takes a lot out of me, i can't stand for long periods without compression and i haven't worked for 5 years but im slowly regaining function with pacing
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tldr: my dad went on a transphobic rant, when i refused to sit and listen to it he threatened to kick me out of my house. im not interested in staying here as long as my security and safety are being leveraged to stop me from speaking up for myself so im leaving even though he hasn't followed thru
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im gonna get out of here. my parents have gotten away with treating me like shit because of my dependency on their help for way too long and i have a feeling my mental and physical health will benefit a lot from getting the fuck out of here so! i've started packing and planning how im gonna move.
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my mum called me after he finally left and basically made excuses for him and said "we should both apologise to each other" despite saying that our stories matched. she reassured me she wouldn't let him kick me out and i haven't had the notification in writing that he promised but uh...
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"maybe being homeless will help you grow up" was the phrase he yelled at me, he yelled at me to pack my shit. basically accused me of making up my disability which. sure. ok. so he gave me 21 days but that's illegal so!