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Passionate about writing and trying to change the world, one positive action at a time. OCD, ME, fibro 🩼♿ #CIAD
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Word of the Day is ‘ingordigiousness’ (18th century): extreme greed at the expense of principles.

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“using a cane is also an energy saver. Because my body doesn’t have to work as hard, I’m not as exhausted at the end of a day as I otherwise would be": https://buff.ly/3DP5EBP from @themightysite.bsky.social #MobilityAids #disability #ChronicPain #ChronicFatigue #EhlersDanlosSyndrome

My #OCD has been crippling me over the past few weeks, and the stress has caused a #fibro flare, far beyond my baseline pain. I can't believe I was ever lucky enough to have such a long period without obsessions or compulsions at this level. I'm at least grateful to know this might not last forever.

“ #LettingGo of #control is uncomfortable, but trying to push past your body’s #limits is so much more uncomfortable — and can even be harmful": https://buff.ly/3VXSB7k from @bezzycommunity.bsky.social #SelfAcceptance #spoonie

“ #Brainfog is not merely an uncomfortable, fuzzy feeling. It is a devastating condition, causing both physical and emotional #pain. Daily life is a constant struggle with #grief": https://buff.ly/4ht54Z9 from @CentralBylines.co.uk #MentalHealth #LongHaulers

I'm going on a little follow-spree to try and find my fellow student social workers on this app! If you've just had a notification from me; hello! Nice to (virtually) meet you 😁

SELF-COMPASSION IN QUALIFIED AND STUDENT SOCIAL WORKERS: A SYSTEMATIC LITERATURE REVIEW AND META-ANALYSIS Sessions, L. et al (2025) / Journal of Evidence-Based Social Work #openaccess #socialwork doi.org/10.1080/2640...

“For those of us with #chronicillness, #touch can trigger excruciating pain. Even a well-meaning gesture—a hand on the shoulder, a pat on the arm—can ignite an unbearable #painflare": https://buff.ly/4eiMSjb #ChronicPain #spoonies

New version of Earth Song just dropped.

First week: Day 1 it was snowing, so it took 3 hours to get there, only to be sent home at 12 Day 2 told we'd get an email. No email. But it was on, apparently. Day 3, I am flaring up, currently between vom bombs. Give me strength! (Literally. Please give me strength if you have some spare)

it genuinely sucks that basically nothing on the internet works well anymore. search? barely works. social media? filled with garbage engagement-bait designed to game the algorithm. news websites? pages that refresh at random or so covered in video ads that it’s impossible to read stories

We’ve got a hard hitting #ThereForME substack out today from Karen Galpin, writing about caring for her daughter Sophia, who has very severe ME. Karen describes their daily reality, responding to narratives that downplay the impact of #ME www.thereforme.uk/p/this-is-no...

All I want is a cottage in the Scottish Highlands, a freshly-fallen snow, a crackling fire, a riveting mystery novel, a kettle on the stove, and a healthy supply of emotional support scones.

No spoons left. Only knives #nospoonsleft #spoonie #onlyknives #chronicillness #chronicpain

I don't post much but I'm glad you're here, I'm glad we're connecting and I'm glad I get to enjoy all your posts.

I continue to be deeply moved by this statement to the heavens by President Carter.

"Where there is research, there is hope". 💜

Mouse, the Lord of Destruction: A tale in two parts. Today is very much a cyclizine day. So, I decided on some bland food for a happy stomach. He doesn't even want the chicken. He wants the rice 😭

"I’m not looking for u to fix the #problem – I just want someone to #listen. I’ve more than likely tried or heard the suggestions or #advice you have to offer. Listen with an open mind & really hear what I hv to say": https://buff.ly/3WQrMD3 #spoonie #ChronicIllness #friendship

What I sing when someone gets the last word in, by running off before I can respond:

“Our #disabilities are not prizes we’ve earned that give us the right to better parking or more attention..Life, fate, whatever u want to call it made that decision & for the most part, we have accepted our #challenges": https://buff.ly/2QEyutr #disability

Art and culture is good for you… who knew?!? 😏 It’s not like we’ve all been banging that drum for years 😉 #theatre #TheatreSky #Arts #Culture

Watching this, no context and no sound: Hmmm. That man is certainly running and he did a flip to finish the run... Now the ref looks annoyed but wants to respectfully start a game of rock, paper, scissors with the camera.. And it's 1-nil

Without downloading more pics, where are you mentally?

It is very cold outside, but this was extremely cool #putbiglighton #bolton

It's 7am and I have, once again, awoken to my cat making biscuits on my tummy. Silly kitty, that's not where biscuits are made. Now get in the kitchen and get to work. We've got bills that need to be paid.

Claggor looking 😘👌🏻and living his best life ❤️💙 (Also, Mylo and his lil 'stache, bless him 😂)