Twitter/X is terrible but there’s a disdain toward straight men on here. This might not be our scene either 🤷🏾‍♂️ - ThreadSky

prestigious-g.bsky.social • 212 days ago

Twitter/X is terrible but there’s a disdain toward straight men on here.

This might not be our scene either 🤷🏾‍♂️

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Bruh, your VERY 1st sentence is.." I don't do Gender wars" 🤷🏽‍♂️ I been on here damn near a week and I see Black Women big uppin "each other" and tightening up that Sisterhood, but ion see it as an "attack" or disdain for US 🤷🏽‍♂️ I've seen just the opposite 😂

whoisdose.bsky.social•212 days ago

Precisely

nihilistquixote.bsky.social•211 days ago

Speak for yourself.

greaterhuff.bsky.social•211 days ago

Have you realized you're a giant loser yet?

dougpasnak.bsky.social•212 days ago

dorkweb.bsky.social•211 days ago

This is sad as fuck hahahaha

sovietcakelady.bsky.social•211 days ago

have you tried not being a douchebag? a hot tip for you straight men having trouble making friends!

hanksingle.bsky.social•211 days ago

I havent had that problem. Might be a moment worthy of self-reflection, I dunno.

tiphseven.bsky.social•212 days ago

Not trying to discount your experience, but for the most part it’s be cool. Make sure to follow list blocking bots and block before it gets out of hand.

bennyswitch.bsky.social•211 days ago

You just made that shit up

prestigious-g.bsky.social•212 days ago

I said I don’t do gender wars, and I meant it. This doesn’t qualify. There are also gay men who’ve expressed that disdain.

I also said I don’t argue. Maybe I’m wrong and these post just appear on my Skyline.

But whatever, y’all be cool.

emperess.bsky.social•212 days ago

From the comments none of those women are straight, I don’t think you should take it personal if lesbians don’t want to engage with men. I haven’t any gender war nonsense on here yet, maybe tweak the skyline

thestacyleigh.bsky.social•212 days ago

I have seen the word “cis” in five months until you posted that.

Looks like you’re seeking out the haters to feed your pain. Stop.

Engage with different people and mute or block people that make you feel badly for being yourself.

bigbatmommy.vtubers.social•212 days ago

This isnt gender wars this is lesbian women biting back at men being homophobic and tossing toxic masculinity at other men who follow lesbians
if that bothers you well...

baronessofbara.bsky.social•211 days ago

How dare lesbians not want rando straight dudes following them, lmfao? This is a nothing ass problem. You are not entitled to others spaces. You're acting like you're living through segregation, bro... lesbians just don't want u following them, it's not that fn deep.

ignorantelle.bsky.social•211 days ago

🎯

kingkimi.bsky.social•212 days ago

I think you’re trying to make an issue where there’s none. I haven’t seen any gender war type skeets nor come across skeets of disdain for cishet Black men.

kingkimi.bsky.social•212 days ago

People are able to curate their communities on here how they like to feel comfortable.

buzzedbabe.bsky.social•212 days ago

I genuinely don’t see anything wrong w wanting a space to be comfortable in. I typically don’t engage w men on social media but the ones I follow have been respectful, that may not be the same for other queer folks but if they don’t want their safe spaces to involve men, that’s their prerogative 🤷🏾‍♀️

buzzedbabe.bsky.social•212 days ago

on all the other platforms they’ll show their asses, but this platform provides more of a space to curate who you want to interact with. everyone has that same liberty, find your community and be comfy in it.

buzzedbabe.bsky.social•212 days ago

also this isn’t meant to be argumentative, just providing you with a different perspective.

sidewaysview.bsky.social•211 days ago

Block and move on. Demanding access to queer women's spaces is not okay.

ramshornstudios.com•211 days ago

Why do you take that personally? Not everyone likes or needs to follow me and it's none of my business why.

justhere4coffee.bsky.social•212 days ago

So you're choosing to follow people specifically in marginalised communities who typically get fetishised, and you're wondering why they're not keen to encourage followers who typically do that fetishising? Everything you see, you've chosen to see. Choose better.

modernbridesickos.bsky.social•211 days ago

I dunno, I'm having a fine time on here. But I don't take it personally when other people have prejudices, or attribute their specific hang ups to an entire website /shrug

renegadeg.bsky.social•212 days ago

There’s no “disdain” for cishet men, it’s just too many of yall are weirdos and not enough of yall are willing to check the weirdos cuz yall have the same fear of men every other marginalized group has. Stop playin victim and be better and hold your peers accountable

fruityphobias.tifosi.social•212 days ago

Two things here, women, queer people and PoC in America have been put on notice that people who "appear" safe might vote against their autonomy, personhood or values. This isn't gender wars, it's healthy mistrust and self-preservation pending your ability to act in a trustworthy way.

fruityphobias.tifosi.social•212 days ago

Being told that PoC/lesbians/ women/queer people in general might not a "safe space" for you, means that some of your preconceived notions about society and your place in it might be challenged. You may have to think, to self examine, to empathize. If this is your reaction to that? That's on you.

bluejayflyes.bsky.social•212 days ago

I saw that post and had to block them it sincerely bothered me

marisaronis.bsky.social•211 days ago

so leave

chappy.club•211 days ago

Think you just need to adjust who you're following tbh

coolerthanmost.bsky.social•212 days ago

And again, my algorithm doesn't see this nonsense. I've seen black men upping black women for no reason. I'm a part of that. That's the point of this, so if it is that, then he needs to go back to Twitter or fix his Skyline...

nthatsthetruth.bsky.social•212 days ago

For somebody whose bio says you “don’t argue” and just “chillin” and “don’t do gender wars,” you sure are doing a lot

ramshornstudios.com•211 days ago

I'm a straight man on here and I've been fine, because I try not to be an asshole.

cherylwigglebottom.bsky.social•212 days ago

Maybe it’s not the app. Just saying

max1mil.bsky.social•211 days ago

peace, bitch

dattil.io•212 days ago

skill issue

joshmore.bsky.social•211 days ago

Have you tried just being less weird to women

melico.bsky.social•211 days ago

If it's not about you, don't make it about you

valerista.bsky.social•211 days ago

???

I don't know what you're talking about. There are tons of straight dudes here.

systemisbroken.bsky.social•211 days ago

I must be missing all of the posts against white men in general. Are we tired of old white men trying to control women? You bet! There should be a safe space for LGBTQ people. Them being safe doesn’t take anything away from you. For the record, I’m a straight white woman, married over 30 years.

mrdamention.bsky.social•212 days ago

Speak for yourself brother. I’m straight and this is FAR from my experience or the impressions I’ve got so far lol

coinfitz.bsky.social•210 days ago

Absolutely nobody here gets called out just for being a cishet dude.

unknowably.bsky.social•211 days ago

my good dude, maybe you can simply not care about this perceived disdain? like, who cares

nerdydro.bsky.social•210 days ago

We throwing the whole app away because of a handful of posts? Where's the logic in that? Did you really expect lesbians and queer people to cater to you or welcome you just because you exist? After everything Str8 men have done to them? Just chill and 🔥 up a blunt. You making us look bad with this.

prestigious-g.bsky.social•210 days ago

Don't throw logic at me when you're clearly not using it. You're putting a lot of your context on what I said. That's your business.

But this idea of making us look bad over stating something fairly obvious is foolish. Let’s compare deeds and work before you ever you can chastise me.

nerdydro.bsky.social•210 days ago

I don't really care to argue on here, I enjoy the peace, just stop making us look bad. This is the equivalent of white people complaining about Black people not wanting white followers. Not everything for your consumption. Keep it moving. That's what I'm gonna go do now. ✌🏾

nerdydro.bsky.social•210 days ago

You said there's distain for straight men here so this might not be the place for us. Yes you make us look bad when there's are over 20 million users here and you pull screenshots of a minute fraction. Have some accountability, you don't get to hide from criticism when you're wrong. Fuck all that.

prestigious-g.bsky.social•210 days ago

I showed a few to show that I was making the sentiment up out of thin air. Any expectation beyond that defies logic. See earlier comment.

How exactly am I hiding from criticism and what am I wrong about?

adatre.bsky.social•211 days ago

Shut the fuck up hettie

creoleebeautyy.bsky.social•212 days ago

Meanwhile I’m looking for more straight men on my SL. 😩

piggy-smallz.bsky.social•212 days ago

😂😂😂😂

lookatthathorse.bsky.social•211 days ago

All you guys ever do is whine and yap, like shut up and go to work. What are you doing on social media anyway? You should be at a construction site or a quarry, not yap yap yap online like a woman

catwizard.bsky.social•212 days ago

If you think this is a real issue, then you should give someone a blowjob so it doesn't apply to you anymore.

swizzlebeef.com•211 days ago

Nah, I'm the whitest dude you can imagine - you can read by me in the dark, I'm straight, married, have kids and am a boring normie by all standards, but I also don't interject myself where I'm obviously not wanted. I follow folks because they're interesting, and if I get blocked, *shrug*.

swizzlebeef.com•211 days ago

Like, I am not the main character, and if me following someone makes them uncomfortable, that's them, and I don't get to tell them how to feel.

yayacatt.bsky.social•212 days ago

Maybe just block who you're not vibing with. No matter where you go you're not gonna get along with everyone and that's OK. There are 21 million people on here after all.

777nocomment.bsky.social•211 days ago

straight men are obsolete, skims thread, leaves thread

lejamesbron.bsky.social•212 days ago

Why don’t you just block stuff you don’t want to see 🤷🏽‍♀️

baboso-fett.bsky.social•212 days ago

suck some dick. problem solved

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