What side did I already choose that greens and dressing are now options? Like what is the unspoken default? Mac? Yams? Potato Salad? Rice? I need context
It’s a compromise. Barring cheating (poly relationships do have rules), due to it being a compromise no one’s really getting exactly what they want, just what they’re ok with rn. At some point, someone is going to start feeling like they’re getting less than the original compromise. IMO
there has to be complete in total trust between all parties in the relationship. Also transparency about the boundaries and expectations of all parties involved.
Yes. If the people in it are honest and set boundaries and rules that *everyone* can follow polyamory can definitely benefit everyone in the relationship. The issue is usually that there's ones set of rules for one partner and one set of rules for the others. People can be controlling.
Actually it's Polymory (or ethical non-monogamy). I know people who have been successful with it for years. It takes lots of commitment, communication, transparency, and knowing just what you want from the people you're bringing in to make it work. Kind of like monogamous ones.
I think if done correctly, polyamory can allow the people within a relationship to keep some of their individuality. Not saying that being in a monogamous relationship means that you'll lose yourself, but I think it's more likely in monogamy than in non-monogamy.
Polygamist? No, because it seems really restricted. Polyamorous? For sure. There's more flexibility and less competition for the time and affection of one person.
Polygamy is the patriarchal practice of men keeping multiple wives. Polyamory is when you and your partners are free to pursue your own independent romantic and sexual relationships. When modern hipsters talk about being 'poly' it's definitely not a sister wives kind of thing- completely different
No. Have friends in polygamous relationships and there’s always one person who feels like they’re not as loved – at least, that is what I hear from them.
For most people no bc smb always gon feel left out or less than. If all parties are into being w multiple ppl and have no attachments then yeah you probably good then
I don’t think polygamist relationships are for everyone. It takes a certain kind of person to fully accept a role in a relationship where they will not be the one and only.
I think someone is always going to feel slighted. I'm not saying that it's always the same individual, but that feeling of attention not being reciprocated is going to hover over the relationship. People make them work, but there's has to be crazy communication or some type of understanding.
I could never wear outside shoes pass the vestibule… I wipe my dogs paws and body when they come inside too… outside is a dirty place. I’d prefer for people to put clean pjs before lounging around the house but I guess that’s to much
A frequently wear my shoes on until I get to my favorite chair and then I take them off. If it's muddy or wet, they come off before I even walk in the door.
Only reason I don't is because my roommate has a dog that sheds literally EVERYWHERE. I've done a great job of keeping that shit out my room so far, and I plan to keep it that way
Yes, ma'am. Lived in Japan for too long to not do so. I get hives if I walk in my house with my shoes on cuz I forgot something don't act to be late for work. 😫
There’s something about the way a woman will look you right in the eyes and smile like she’s on some sort of power trip during cowgirl that recently makes me very partial to it over backshots
I’m 26. No kids. Don’t really want to date a guy with a kid but let’s be honest here. Y’all think a marriage is more of a commitment than a baby. 🤮 #useyabutt
My current relationship is with a woman who had a daughter from a previous marriage. It's never easy, but if I wasn't up for the total package that I was getting into I wouldn't be in the relationship.
I have not started dating since my divorce however, if I did, I will only date single fathers because I feel we will have a lot in common and the conversation would be more fulfilling.
I never wanted kids. I knew that since I was a child and forced to babysit. My dad thinks I'll change my mind, but I'm almost 35 and still feel the same way.
I did when I was still single. It didn’t go well… but I was only 21 at the time. If I were single now (54 and married w/ no kids), I would date someone with kids.
I didn't date men with kids til I met my husband 😆 He's the first and last. He had ex wiveS and joint custody. I let him know from the jump I wasn't interested in parenting his kids. I was 29. He didn't lead with having kids. Wasn't on his profile either. An hour into our convo he mentioned it.
Yes. I have kids now and it's rare to find people in my age range without kids. Even before I didn't have any, I was okay with dating a woman with kids.
To be perfectly honest my first child’s father was a Work fling 😩 and it only lasted during his birthday month November damn♏️ 😩. My 2nd child’s Father I’m Married to him, so yea I’m in love with my Husband for sure! Both men are Scorpio and their birthdays happen to be a day apart 😩
I have love for them because we made an amazing kid. But I am most definitely not in love with him and would rather eat wet denim for the rest of my life instead of getting back together lol
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Broccoli
Asparagus
Collards
In that order
I really hate going through my place with shoes on!
Right now I’m still saying no even though I’m almost 30 🤷🏽♀️
I have a 20yo college daughter.
My current relationship is with a woman who had a daughter from a previous marriage. It's never easy, but if I wasn't up for the total package that I was getting into I wouldn't be in the relationship.
Brady Bunch it.