People that mean well. We don’t necessarily have to know them but they’re everywhere. I’ve been lucky to know so many. It’s the only riches that counts.
What gives the insincerity away?
And are those personal or more general non-personal compliment?
In the latter case they may simply be trying to - less than successfully - avoid awkwardness.
Are you looking for friends or subservient employees type friends. Ask yourself, am i all of those things to them? I guarantee u ain't, so why would you expect higher respect from your friends than you are willing to give in return? Narcissistic?
Better with people who are not perfect than alone. The only reason i replied to your post was that i see stuff like this and worry it makes people turn away. It feeds paranoia & alienation.
Does posts like this feed the good monkey or the bad monkey that exists in all our heads?
It isn't that you aren't right in theory. It's that you can face criminal charges for tax evasion, and because you aren't a billionaire, you likely won't see any preferential treatment over it.
I WISH it was more common as a part pf culture where I live. 🩵 Sadly people of strong character swim against the tide here.. especially in the professional 🌎 I've taught every student to be willing to stand up alone against harm to others no matter the cost.
I don't use the word friends lightly and i don't claim to have many in what my 25 years on the planet.
However every single one of them had all the green flag qualities.
Which leads me to believe that i may be a alright guy to be with too.
Be an alright person and you attract alright people. i think
Ahhhh. Reciprocal. So you can’t just expect these things from others, you have to BE this person for them. I can see why they wouldn’t want to lead with that. It would be like calling a metal detector a “beach cleaner” or calling a slot machine “a lever-pulling marathon to benefit casino workers.”
They’re traits people value in others. Presented as a list of things to seek in others. A commenter observed that it smacks of entitlement. Your kind reply was that it’s not just a list of things we’re owed, it’s also a list of things we owe. My joke: the author was smart to leave that part out.
I'd also argue that point 7 is already included in point 6 and therefore redundant. A terrible flaw imo, showing up with an unreduced fraction is considered indecent in some circles.
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And are those personal or more general non-personal compliment?
In the latter case they may simply be trying to - less than successfully - avoid awkwardness.
Yes, I'm old enough to be called that 😁
A stable, energetic kindness without ulterior motives (however well-intentioned) is all that's needed.
One of my important green flags. 👍
-they will tell you true, even if you are not right in some situations
Does posts like this feed the good monkey or the bad monkey that exists in all our heads?
And I choose to connect with people who possess these qualities.🦋
I got rid of the other 99% because of the ⛳
Thank you.
And you're very welcome.
Theres no reason I should have to pay if the billionares dont.
We should protest the government however possible
Beloved, the Lord gave me a revelation about your career and family. Do well to leave me a message, it is very important. God bless you.”
than loads of lousy ones.
Well done!
There's no worse offense. You can perpetrate against someone you say you care about than to be an enabler. In their destruction.
However every single one of them had all the green flag qualities.
Which leads me to believe that i may be a alright guy to be with too.
Be an alright person and you attract alright people. i think
They are tenets I try to actively embody.
Besides, these green flags are reciprocal.
These markers are also motivators. Seeing it in the people around you might inspire reciprocation. It's a choice.
Can I / we help in any way?