Yes it is. Involuntary means involuntary regardless of the reason why. You can't help your tics and that's a behavior they can't help either. It is exactly the same thing.
It is a trait that Neurodivergent people communicate by relating their experiences to situations, but not in a way where they don’t let people’s voices not be heard
You also don’t even have Tourette’s and barely understand ADHD so it’s best not to speak on conditions you don’t know about
I’m not here to insult you in any way I apologise if my tone is blunt but I am just here to clear misinformation because we don’t want people to think all neurodiverse people just don’t let people voice their problems and involuntary jump in
hm. nope. try again. you came into my friends' business without any context and acted like it was their fault you didn't ask for any. you're a bad communicator and you're not trying to get better. but i promise you can if you try!
selfishly saying "what about me" is not the same as trying to relate to someone's struggle by explaining a personal situation/story if thats what you're referring to?? i know ppl will think they're trying to "one up them", but that isn't the same thing as completely not caring abt someones struggles
It goes beyond that though. It does sometimes present as "don't feel bad, it could have been worse" or "you think that's bad, what about...". People don't walk around with their labels on their shirt. Sometimes it comes off as shitty behavior even when not mal intended. Missed social cues, etc.
if a person with adhd like myself was doing that i feel like that's just plan ignorance and rude and would be a behavior one with adhd could correct i don't really find rudeness and ignorance to be unvoluntary?🧍♀️
Because you're viewing that from your own experience and bias. Involuntary means that's not something that can be controlled. A lot of ADHD and Autism traits that are entirely involuntary are considered rude and weird but others.
ok there are a lot of involuntary traits that come with adhd and autism but you can't just excuse them if someone is being rude and ignorant? even if its not by choice there has to be a point where you can learn do not be rude to ppl and have common sense at least a little bit🤷♀️
its hard vary hard but it can be done i myself have had to come to terms with what i say and do around ppl that might offend ppl and it is so hard to be aware and understand things it really is but it can be done
A woman I used to work with would say "I'm doing it again" every time she caught herself. I would just sit there and let her go though. I have a lot of patience, eventually she'd circle back around.
It's hit or miss. Some people can and some can't. It's the same with medication. Some people respond well with little or no side effects, for others medication either doesn't work or they can't handle the side effects. There's no blanket solution.
dawg ur spending ur time arguing with young women online. what are you doing? are you gaining anything? you only have so much time on this earth and then its done! you dont get another try!
I respectfully made a comment about the wording of the post and how it came off. A bunch of childish young women came in here to argue. Not the same thing.
yet here you are, defending your honor against me, a young woman with no stake in this. maybe you should have never shared your thought on this at all! clearly its only made you and many others upset to imply op doesnt know the symptoms of a disorder she has! just a thought for u
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You also don’t even have Tourette’s and barely understand ADHD so it’s best not to speak on conditions you don’t know about
(and lol I myself have ADHD. what we’re describing here is Not That)