"you're less fun when you're sober" wasn't the thing I needed to hear in VR chat last night.
I think I seriously need to prune my friends list there
I think I seriously need to prune my friends list there
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#ThreeYearsSober
To have you do something that you’ve expressed has caused you harm and the actual want to have you relapse back into it is never something that can be touted as “more fun”.
I was an embarrassment when I used to drink during the beginning of my VR days.
When I stopped drinking, I was told I wasn't fun anymore, too.
Kind of feel like I never truly got over that.
I also know I’m more alive.
Surround yourself with people who like you for who you are.
116 Long Necks
35 Moonshines
13 Shooters
2 wines
1.5 cases of Pilsners
7 bottles of hard liquor
1 Gallon of Whiskey
Gallons of Mixed
It's rough there
There is a massive drinking culture there, and going back feels like being an alcoholic trying to be clean in a brewery. Keep on your goals.
And yes, we are all still proud of you for how hard you are working. You are doing a great job.
I always appreciate and respect your presence in VR every time I catch you.
Man, fuck that. Some people are responsible, but not everyone is a good bartender who's accountable for any BS that happens afterward. I nearly fell into the rabbit hole of VR crunking but caught myself early.
If their thought is "You're only fun when you sedate your brain and punish your liver," then you need more than pruning scissors; you need a nuke.
The culture of pressuring others into drinking just to be "more likable" to them sounds manipulative.
Nobody is ever "more fun" when they're drunk. They're just easier to manipulate...dooooo
Not. A good. Friend.
Like legit, whoever it was, they need a straight up “never say this to someone again, it’s not ok”
Regardless "party only" friends can get bent
Anyone who says "yOu'rE lEsS fUn WhEn yOu'rE sObeR" is nothing but a pissy-ass little fuckbitch.
Cut that line, don't look back.
I struggle to put my reaction into words.
That person isn't a friend at all
Would hardly call them a friend if they are going to be making comments like that and not support you
You're plenty of fun when sober and source of some really good conversations too. I always live taking with you about stuff.
Just... I am so sorry
That's a shitty person.
Your health and well-being is always more important then being 'fun'
Drunks love funny.
But hanging out with drunks eventually became "which one is going to the e.r. tonight" and or "is someone gonna die"?
I couldn't be around it anymore.
My sober life is great.
Still allow treats.
Just not often.
that phrase is never said by anyone good