I've been to over 500 concerts and festivals in my younger years. Women's bathrooms are always packed with a line around the building. I usually use the men's room. You know what? Not one guy has ever said anything. I've even had them let me in first. That shit is so stupid. Use what u need to.
Women use the men's room all the time at big events when the line for the ladies is too long. Same with parents of small children, I've never seen anyone have an issue. But suddenly now folks wanna be the bathroom police.
In order to ensure a trans “woman” is safe, they should use a woman’s bathroom?
But the hell with women’s safety? So, your idea is that any man can walk into a woman’s bathroom and women take on the burden of feeling unsafe to safeguard trans “women” from men?
While traveling for Thanksgiving last week, a woman brought her grown, disabled son into a bathroom I was in at a truck stop in Ohio. You know what? Nobody died. Everything was fine.
The level of paranoid hysteria that still exists w/ some folks around the purported sanctity of gender segregated public restrooms (as we euphemistically call them) is truly amazing, given that all of them are quickly dispelled by using a gender neutral facility and discovering it's no big deal.
As a gay man I’d prefer the ladies room. Because then I’d not have perverted old creeps mostly closeted married men trying to get a look at my business parts!!!
And I’m 62. Does that tell you anything about the men in the men’s room???
Absolutely not, because you are a creep.
If you were a trans woman minding her own business, using the restroom, washing her hands and then leaving. Not a problem.
Not a single case of a trans woman even suggesting, let alone doing what you've thought about a thousand times.
I use truck stop restrooms all over the United States I even go into rest areas late at night early in the morning mid-afternoon sunny rainy snowy windy calm.. and never and I repeat never have I worried about someone or worried about someone's junk I go in do my business wash my hands and leave...
During my community college days, I accidentally went to the women's bathroom because I was holding it in for so long in art class and it was the closest one. I don't know if it's because they were empathetic or I had that nonthreatening face, but they let me by, no questions asked. True story.
Back in the day, at a place called the Richfield Coliseum, where for every 3 mens bathrooms 🚻 there was 1 womens . . NO ONE CARED when women went into the men's bathroom to do their "thing"
A question of maturity became a question of morality. We must be quite the radicalized bunch these days, glad people who care enough to say this should not matter to anyone keep speaking out.
The goal is for everyone to feel comfortable using a public restroom. If the restroom is a single toilet with a sink, there is no problem, but if the neutral restroom has multiple toilets someone may feel uncomfortable or fear harassment. Everyone's sensitivities must be respected
Why do you talk about bigotry? It is a matter of personal sensitivity. It would be enough to have bathrooms where one person enters at a time and not communal toilets, where, as has happened to me and others of my friends, you can be spied on or harassed. Is avoiding harassment bigotry?
Trans people are not harassing you. They're going to the bathroom and minding their own business. If somebody isn't "comfortable" with their existence, too bad.
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Denying this simple fact only encourages the predators.
#sarcasm
You’re telling women not to care to feel safe in women only spaces like bathrooms, changing rooms, sports, rape counseling centers, prisons, etc
You’re mocking a woman’s right to feel safe & you think your ideology is correct?
https://www.hrc.org/resources/fatal-violence-against-the-transgender-and-gender-expansive-community-in-2023
In order to ensure a trans “woman” is safe, they should use a woman’s bathroom?
But the hell with women’s safety? So, your idea is that any man can walk into a woman’s bathroom and women take on the burden of feeling unsafe to safeguard trans “women” from men?
Are you deliberately misunderstanding the assignment?
What if my daughter visits me at work?
How about you change your answer to “Never. Because there’s no way to know in advance if you’re invading a young girl’s safe space.”
And I’m 62. Does that tell you anything about the men in the men’s room???
If you were a trans woman minding her own business, using the restroom, washing her hands and then leaving. Not a problem.
Not a single case of a trans woman even suggesting, let alone doing what you've thought about a thousand times.
No one cares!
I don't have time for genital inspectors!
I have it on good authority that all bathrooms are disgusting and being in one is enough trauma before you start worrying about what's in my pants.
Capitol staffers: Start eating lots of beans.
Trans or cross dressers however I trust ✌️